DEALING WITH CHANGE

WHY IS IT DIFFICULT TO DEAL WITH CHANGE ESPECIALLY THE LONG TERM CHANGE?
DO WE PUT OURSELVES IN A SITUATION THAT WE DON'T WANT TO?
COMMITMENT WE SIGN ON, GROUP THAT WE BELONG TO, A JOB THAT WE MUST DO

IT'S THE CLASH BETWEEN OUR INDIVIDUAL SYSTEM AND THE CULTURAL SYSTEM WHEREVER WE ARE INVOLVE IN. OUR SYSTEM CHANGE MUCH FASTER AND IRRATIONAL AND ILLOGICAL COMPARED TO GROUP SYSTEM. OUR INDIVIDUAL SYSTEM IS DIFFERENT THAN OTHERS' IRRATIONAL AND ILLOGICAL SYSTEM.

CHILDREN WITH DIVELOPMENTAL DISORDER EXPERIENCE MORE DIFFICULTY DEALING WITH CHANGE.
INFANTS AND CHILDREN DEAL WITH CHANGE RECKLESSLY. INFANTS ARE IN INCONSCIOUS INCOMPETENCE MODE. CHILDREN IN CONSCIOUS INCOMPETENCE, ADULT IN CONSCIOUS COMPETENCE AND WE EVENTUALLY GET TO UNCONSCIOUS COMPETENCE.

OUR ENVIRONMENT CHANGE LIKE NATURE. OUR BODY REACT TO ENVIRONMENT LIKE NATURAL REACTION. BUT OUR MIND AND SOCIAL SYSTEM DISTORT THIS NATURAL PROCESS. HAVING TO LIVE WITH THE MIND IN THE SOCIAL SYSTEM WITH A NATURAL BIOLOGICAL SYSTEM AND NATURAL ENVIRONMENT. WE CAN LIVE WITHOUT THE NATURAL ENVIRONMENT AS A HUMAN BUT WE DO UNDERNEATH FOLLOW THE LAW OF PHYSIC. BUT WE HAVE TO DEAL WITH OTHER NATURAL BEING, IRRATIONAL BEING. AND WE HAVE TO DEAL WITH THE RIGID STRUCTURED SOCIAL SYSTEM THAT FOLLOW LAW OF LOGIC, LANGUAGE AND RULES.

SO OUR BIOLOGICAL SYSTEM GET TRAPPED IN SOCIAL SYSTEM AND OTHER BIOLOGICAL SYSTEM. AT THE SAME TIME, OUR MIND, TRAINED BY THE SOCIAL SYSTEM TO DEAL IN SOCIAL SYSTEM,  GET TRAPPED DEALING WITH OUR BIOLOGICAL SYSTEM AND OTHER BIOLOGICAL SYSTEM.

IT'S A CLASH BETWEEN THE BIOLOGICAL AND SOCIAL SYSTEM, WITH ITS LANGUAGE AND CULTURE.