NOTICE THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN OBSERVING THE ROOM AND OBSERVING THE SELF. WE USE OUR SENSES TO OBSERVE THE ROOM BUT WE USE OUR IMAGINATION TO OBSERVE THE SELF. BECAUSE WE ARE LAZY, WE ALSO USE IMAGINATION TO OBSERVE THE ROOM AND DON;T OBSERVE THE REAL ROOM.
LIKE WE ARE TRYING TO FIGURE OUT SOMETHING AND OBSERVING THE PERSON WHO IS TRYING TO FIGURE OUT. THE I IS NOT THE PERSONALITY OR THE SELF.
WHEN OUR FRIENDS MUST TAKE AN EXAM, WE DON'T FEEL STRESS. WHEN WE EXPERIENCE NON TRAUMATIC MEMORY, WE DON'T FEEL STRESS. LIKE VISITING OLD COLLEGE OR OLD JOB PLACE. WE FELT STRESS WHEN WE WERE DOING IT, BUT NOW, IT'S JUST A PLACE AND PEOPLE. THERE IS NO SELF EXPECTATION, NO STRESS. WE IDENTIFIED WITH THE SELF WHO MUST TAKE THE EXAM OR MUST WORK.
IN TRAUMATIC MEMORY, WE STILL FEEL THE NEGATIVE AFFLICTIVE EMOTION. THE SELF STILL MAKES APPEARANCE. OUR BODY IS HIJACKED BY THE SELF. SHOULD BE THE OTHER WAY AROUND. WE GET HIJACKED BY OUR FANTASY AND FEELING - PERSONALITY
BABY CAN ONLY DRINK MILK, ADULTS CAN DRINK MILK BUT CAN ALSO DRINK OTHER BEVERAGES. MATURITY IS FLEXIBILITY.
I USE PERSONALITY TO ATTACH TO THE CONSCIOUS SELF.
PERSONALITY DISTORT REALITY BY PREFERENCE AND DENY SOME PARTS.
THIS IS OUR PSYCHOLOGICAL ATTACHMENT/DEPENDENCE ON SELF/OTHERS. WE LET OUR SELVE OR OTHERS HIJACK US TO MAKE HAPPY.
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