UNAWARENESS

IN JOHARI WINDOW, THERE IS WINDOW FOR BLINDSPOT AND UNKNOWN.
THE WINDOWS COMMON KNOWLEDGE AND SECRET ARE CONVENTIONAL. THE BLINDSPOT AND UNKNOWN ARE BASED ON OBSERVATION.

THE FIRST TWO WINDOWS ARE BASED ON WHAT I KNOW (THOUGHTS)
THE SECOND TWO WINDOWS ARE BASED ON WHAT OTHERS SEE.

THE SECOND TWO WINDOWS ARE UN-AWARENESS.
THE FIRST TWO WINDOWS ARE PERSONA AND THE SECOND ONES ARE SHADOW

WE ARE SO BRAINWASHED TO BE SOCIAL THAT WE NEGLECT OUR INDIVIDUALITY
PERSONA IS SOCIAL, THE INDIVIDUAL BECOMES SHADOW. THE INDIVIDUALITY BECOMES SELFISHNESS.

WE ARE NOT AWARE OF OUR SELFISHNESS. WE DON'T RECOGNIZE OUR SELFISHNESS.
WE ALWAYS THINK OF WHAT OTHERS WOULD DO TO US THAT WE ARE NOT AWARE OF WHAT WE DO.

WE CLOSE OUR EYES ON HUMAN NATURE, BEING HUMAN
WE BELIEVE THE CONVENTIONAL IDEA TO BE HUMAN, TO BE CIVILIZED BEING.
LIKE PUNISHING A DOG FOR BEING UNTAMED, FOR NOT UNDERSTANDING ITS NATURE, WE PUNISH INDIVIDUAL WHO DOESN'T CONFORM TO THE RULES.

WE DON'T EXPECT OURSELVES TO CONFORM TO THE RULES, BECAUSE WE BELIEVE WE HAVE, BUT WE EXPECT OTHERS TO CONFORM TO THE RULES.

THIS IS THE NARCISSISTIC VIEW OUR SELVES. WE BALANCE OUR WORLD OR CORRECT OUR WORLD BY EXPECTING PEOPLE TO DO THE RIGHT THINGS BECAUSE WE DON'T WANT TO. WE EXPECT OTHERS TO FOLLOW THE RULES THAT WE CREATE JUST FOR THEM BECAUSE I BELIEVE I AM THE CENTER OR LEADER.

A PERSON WHO DEMAND FREEDOM TO DO WHATEVER HE WANTS TO DO IN HIS LIFE DOESN'T GIVE FREEDOM TO OTHERS TO DO WHATEVER SHE WANTS TO DO AND HE DOESN'T SEE IT.

PEOPLE ARE BLIND BECAUSE THEY DON'T KNOW HUMAN NATURE AND DENY/NEGLECT THEIR HUMAN NATURE. THEIR HUMAN NATURE BECOMES SHADOW AND DESTROY.

BEING HUMAN HAS THE SENSES AND THE SINS. HUMAN NATURE IS NOT ORDERLY, THERE IS INDIVIDUALITY AND DIFFERENCE, EACH HAS ITS OWN LIFE AND EACH PERSON HAS PERSONA AND SHADOW. MOST PEOPLE ARE IGNORANT AND BLIND.

THIS IS THE ILLUSION WE HAVE ABOUT PEOPLE, THAT PEOPLE KNOW WHAT THEY ARE DOING/COMPETENT AND PEOPLE (ADULTS) ARE SELF RELIANT. THAT PEOPLE ARE NOT BLIND AND IGNORANT. THAT PEOPLE HAS NO SHADOW. THAT PEOPLE ARE NOT SELFISH. THAT PEOPLE DON'T HAVE SINS. THAT PEOPLE ARE HAPPY. THAT PEOPLE ARE NORMAL. THAT PEOPLE ARE NOT SUFFERING. PEOPLE ARE NICE. PEOPLE CARE, PEOPLE LOVEW, PEOPLE KNOW. PEOPLE ARE SMART, LOVING, AND KIND. PEOPLE ARE MORAL. PEOPLE ARE RESPONSIBLE AND INDEPENDENT. PEOPLE ARE LIKE THE JONESES. PEOPLE ARE GOOD CITIZEN, RELIGIOUS. THAT PEOPLE ARE GOOD.

"GOOD" CUT A PERSON AND CREATE SHADOW OF ANYTHING THAT DOESN'T FIT THE "GOOD".