We sometimes have problems and sometimes we do not have problems. We wish and hope that we don't have problems in life but we do. It is important to notice though that we don't always have problems every second of our life because we sometimes do not have problems. What are we like when we do not have problems? When we do not have problems, we are in Status Quo or "comfort Zone". We feel neutral or positive about life. When we are in this comfort zone, our selves are surrounded by defense mechanism like our immune system protect our body. But they don't act so we don't notice. If we try to give help to this person, it s like "waking him up", we will see resistance.
However, A person in problem state open his defense mechanism to receive help. This person is more ready to receive help.
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