HUMAN SHADOW

MOST ANIMAL WILD BEHAVIORS AND EMOTION HAS BEEN TAMED OR CIVILIZED BY SOCIETY/PARENTS AND BECOMES SHADOW.

THIS GIVES BIRTH TO HUMAN DESIRE GREED, LUST, GLUTTONY, ENVY, PRIDE, SLOTH, WRATH (7 DEADLY SINS).

ANIMAL HAS EMOTIONS, HUMAN HAS DESIRE.

THESE DESIRE IS AGAIN REPRESSED AND BECOMES SHADOW.

WE SUPRESSED ANY HUMAN BEHAVIOR THAT BROKE THE RULES/LAW, HURT OTHERS, INORDERLY, ACTING IN AND OUT, CHILDISH, SLOW, UGLY, WEAKNESSES, SOCIALLY UNDESIRABLE, IMMORAL, SICK, OLD, DEATH, PAIN, SUFFERING, NEGATIVE FEELING, NEGATIVITY, WRONG, VILLAIN.

WE SURPRESSED ANYTHING THAT IS NOT SOCIALLY DESIRABLE OR IDEAL.

ANY ANIMAL BEHAVIORS SUCH AS AGGRESSIVENESS, FEAR, ANXIETY AND HUMAN DESIRE SUCH AS GREED LUST GLOTTONY ENVY PRIDE SLOTH AND WRATH THAT COMES OUT IN CORRUPTION, THEFT, CRIMINAL BEHAVIORS. ANY CHEATING BEHAVIORS, MANIPULATION, CON BEHAVIORS.

SOCIETY IS TRYING TO MAINTAIN GOOD IMAGE AND HAS ITS OWN SHADOWS.

THIS IS WHY WE DON'T SEE OUR SHADOW BUT RECOGNIZE THE SHADOW IN OTHERS. BECAUSE WE ARE SELF RIGHTEOUS AND HYPOCRETE WHO SEE SELF AS SOCIALLY DESIRABLE AND RIGHTEOUS AND SUPERIOR AND TRYING TO MAINTAIN THAT IMAGE AND OUR SHADOW COMES ALIVE IN THE DARK. A LOT HAPPENS IN THE DARK.

WE DON'T SEE OUR SHADOW BECAUSE WE ARE TOO BUSY WEARING OUR MASK AND DOING PUBLIC RELATIONS AND DAMAGE CONTROL. WE CAN SEE OTHERS' MASK AND SHADOW BUT IT'S MORE DIFFICULT TO SEE OUR OWN SHADOWS BECAUSE IT WAS COVERED UP BY THE MASK.

WE ARE AFRAID TO LET OUR SHADOW OUT INTO THE LIGHT AND THERE IS RESISTANCE FOR FEAR OF WHAT COULD HAPPEN. WE ARE AFRAID OF OUR OWN SHADOW LIKE WE ARE AFRAID OF OTHERS' SHADOW. WE HATE AND ARE AFRAID OF OUR OWN SHADOW. OUR SHADOW IS OUR ENERGY AND THAT'S WHAT WE ARE AFRAID OF, TO BE POWERFUL.

A PERSON WHO HAS MUCH SHADOW HAS MANY IRRITATION AT OTHERS AND USUALLY AT THINGS THAT HE USUALLY DO. LIKE AN AGGRESSIVE SELFISH PERSON HATES ANOTHER AGGRESSIVE SELFISH PERSON. WE LIKE PARTS OF OTHERS THAT WE LIKE IN OURSELVES (PERSONA) AND WE HATE PART OF OTHERS THAT WE HATE IN OURSELVES (SHADOW)

THE PERSON IS ALSO USUALLY IDEALISTIC AND ORDERED. THE EXTREME CASE IS OBSESSIVE COMPULSIVE AND THE SHADOW IS THE OBJECT THAT IRRITATE HIM.

WE CAN SEE SHADOW EVERYWHERE, PROBLEMS, ESPECIALLY IN CLOSED RELATIONSHIP OR IN MEDIA. SHADOW APPEAR DUE TO PERSONA. LEARN TO BE SILLY. WHATEVER IS NOT ACCEPTED, LIKE CHILDLIKENESS, SILLINESS, PLAY, SENSITIVITY FOR GUYS.

WE GET TRAPPED IN OUR PERSONA. IT'S LIKE GRIPPED BY OUR PERSONA WHERE WE CAN'T MOVE. LIKE WE ARE HOLDING ON A PILLAR FOR SAFETY. WE FEAR REJECTION BEFORE WE UNDERSTAND REJECTION.

HOW I SEE MYSELF IS DIFFERENT THAN HOW I SEE OTHERS.
I SEE MYSELF AS SOCIALLY CIVILIZED AND DON'T SEE/DENY THE ANIMUS IN ME.
I EXPECT OTHERS TO BE SOCIALLY CIVILIZED AND TRY TO CORRECT THEIR ANIMUS
WHILE I EXPECT OTHERS TO BE CIVILIZED, I AM ACTING LIKE AN ANIMAL UNKNOWINGLY.

WE EXPECT OTHERS AND OTHERS EXPECT US TO PLAY BY THE RULES OF THE GROUP, BUT WE INDIVIDUALLY ARE NOT MADE TO FOLLOW BY THE RULES BUT FOLLOW OUR INDIVIDUATION PROCESS. WE PLAY OUR OWN GAMES IN SECRET AND PRETEND TO PLAY BY THE RULES. WE CALL PEOPLE WHO PLAY BY THE RULES "NICE".

IN RELATIONSHIP, I WANT MY FREEDOM BUT EXPECT OTHERS TO FOLLOW THE RULES OR MY RULES. OTHERS ALSO WANT THE SAME THING, THEY CAN DO WHATEVER THEY WANT BUT EXPECT OTHERS TO FOLLOW THEIR RULES.