SELF RIGHTEOUSNESS

IN CLOSED MIND, WE LIVE IN COMPLEX OR "SELF LEVEL" THINKING
THIS COMPLEX IS IMAGES NOT REPRESENTATION
THIS COMPLEX LOOKS REAL AND COMPLETE WITH THE REAL PERSONS.
THERE IS I AND OTHERS.
I IS MADE UP OF ACCEPTED PART OF SELF, OTHERS ARE MADE UP OF DENIED PART OF SELF THAT IS DISOWNED.
IN A WAY, WE ARE ALWAYS TALKING ABOUT OURSELVES. IT IS NOT SO IN THE MIND LEVEL. A PERSON MAY ACCEPT HIS DENIED PART HIMSELF IN PRIVATE, BUT IN PUBLIC, HE WILL PROJECT HIS DENIED PARTS TO OTHERS AND FAVOR HIMSELF.

THE PROBLEM IS SELF RIGHTEOUSNESS. I AM RIGHT AND OTHERS ARE WRONG.
SELF RIGHTEOUSNESS IS HYPOCRISY.
IN HYPOCRISY, WE BLAME OTHERS FOR SOMETHING NEGATIVE THAT WE ALWAYS DO.
IN HYPOCRISY, WE TAKE CREDITS FOR SOMETHING POSITIVE THAT WE DON'T DO AND DOWNPLAYS WHAT OTHERS DO.
AN ABUSER WILL COMPLAIN WHEN HE IS ABUSED.
A LIAR WILL COMPLAIN WHEN HE IS LIED TO.


HOW IS IT POSSIBLE THAT WE ARE BLIND TO OUR BEHAVIOR AND SEE IT IN OTHERS? LIKE A RIGHTEOUS COUNTRY OR RACE THAT ONLY SEE IT'S GOODNESS AND IS BLIND TO IT'S FLAW BUT SEE OTHERS FLAWS AND DOWNPLAY GOODNESS. IS IT ONLY POWER TRIP? OR A COMPANY OR POLITICIAN WHO MAINTAIN POSITIVE IMAGE AND DAMAGE CONTROL NEGATIVE IMAGE?

SELF RIGHTEOUSNESS IS IMAGE BASED.
WE CONDEMN THOSE WE HATE MOST IN OUR SELVES TO HIDE IT.
IF WE HATE IT, WE DON'T HAVE IT.
AN AGGRESSIVE PERSON HATES ANOTHER AGGRESSIVE PERSON

WE DON'T RECOGNIZE OUR OWN THINKING ERRORS, BUT WE RECOGNIZE OTHERS'

HOW I SEE OTHERS IS NOT SIMILAR TO HOW I SEE MYSELF
HOW I SEE OTHERS IS SIMILAR TO HOW OTHERS SEE ME OR
HOW I SEE MYSELF IS SIMILAR TO HOW OTHERS SEE THEMSELVES

WE COMPLAIN ABOUT OUR OWN FLAWS, THE SAME FLAWS THAT WE HAVE
WE ONLY COMPLAIN ABOUT OUR FLAW, USUALLY IN OTHERS.
BECAUSE WE RECOGNIZE THEM
WE HIDE THOSE WEAKNESSES, INSTEAD, WE TALK ABOUT THE SAME FLAWS IN OTHERS

A PERSON WHO IS BULLIED WILL BULLY
IT FEELS GOOD TO BULLY AND BAD TO BE BULLIED

MUJI DIRI SENDIRI, EJEK ORANG LAIN
EJEK ORANG LAIN DENGAN PERBUATAN SENDIRI???
SEEING THE FLAW IN 3RD PERSON?
BLAMING IS SELF DESCRIPTION
IT TAKES ONE TO KNOW ONE

ANOTHER PERSON CARRY THE SHADOW, WE REACT, BECAUSE WE DON'T LIKE TO DEAL WITH IT. THAT'S WHY I REPRESS IT.
IT IS UNCONSCIOUS, IT WILL HAVE TO COME OUT IN A 3RD PERSON
IT WILL APPEAR IN OTHERS' AND WILL REAPPEAR THROUGHOUT LIFE BECAUSE IT IS PART OF US AND STILL HAS ENERGY UNTIL IT IS RECOGNIZED.
OUR SHADOW ATTRACT OTHERS' SHADOW. THAT'S WHY ABUSED PERSON ALWAYS IS ATTRACTED TO ABUSERS.
SHADOW IS ALIVE UNTIL RECOGNIZED AND JOIN EGO.
SHADOW TURN ON PERSONA, THEY ARE LIKE SIBLINGS
EGO IS PARENTS. CONFLICT BETWEEN EGO AND SHADOWS IS THE COMPLEX
EGO IS ASHAMED OF SHADOW AND USE PERSONA AS MASK

WE ARE ASHAMED OF SHADOW BECAUSE WE ARE AFRAID IT WILL COME OUT AND GET CAUGHT

THERE IS I, THE REST IS NOT I
WHAT IS NOT OWNED IS NOT MINE
IT IS OTHERS. BLAMING IS NOT BEING RESPONSIBLE.
DR JEKKYL AND MR. HYDE.

IF THINGS ARE TRUE, WHY REACT?
IF THINGS ARE FALSE, WHY REACT?
IF THINGS ARE TRUE BUT PRETENDED TO BE FALSE, WE REACT
IF THINGS ARE FALSE BUT PRETENDED TO BE TRUE, WE REACT

TOXIC IS ANXIETY FOR ANOTHER PERSON'S ANXIETY.