FEELING AND GAMES

IF EMOTION IS PHYSICAL SENSE, WHAT IS EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE OR MANAGEMENT?
TRAINING THE PHYSICAL SELF AND THE COMPLEXES
CHANGING ACTIVITIES OR ENVIRONMENT THAT LIFE IS PLEASANT
LETTING NATURAL SYSTEM FLOW RATHER THAN MANIPULATING THEM TO GAIN PLEASURE
IF YOU FEEL PAIN AND THERE IS NO PHYSICAL CAUSE, THAT MEANS YOU ARE LOSING GAMES.
PLAY GAMES BUT DON'T CHEAT
OLAH RAGA ATAU OLAH JIWA

LIFE IS A GAME, GAMES ARE LIKE LIFE
WHY PLAY SIMULATED LIFE, IF YOU CAN PLAY REAL LIFE?
IN REAL LIFE, THE ANTE IS MUCH HIGHER
THERE ARE CHEATERS IN LIFE
USE SIMULATED GAMES TO TRAIN AND LEARN, OLAH RAGA DAN OLAH JIWA
EXERCISE AND LEARNING
PLAYERS WHO CAN PLAY WITH REAL LIFE DON'T NEED TO PLAY WITH SIMULATED GAMES
PLAYERS WHO CAN PLAY WITH REAL PEOPLE DON'T NEED TO PLAY WITH DOLLS AND TOYS
DON'T BREAK RULES AND DON'T CHEAT
CHEATING IS DENYING BREAKING THE RULES

TO PLAY A GAME, YOU NEED SKILLS AND RULES
AND YOU NEED CREATIVITY TO PLAY THE GAMES

FILL YOUR LIFE WITH GAMES, BUT PICK GAMES THAT PREPARE YOU FOR REAL LIFE
PLAYING AND GAMES ARE NOT RECREATION OR ENTERTAINMENT OR RELIEF FROM LIFE
MAKE YOUR LIFE AS PLAYING, GAMES, RECREATION OR ENTERTAINMENT.

PLAY GAMES THAT HELPS YOU NOT HURT YOU
FOLLOW THE RULES OR PLAY GAMES WITH CONSENT (IMPLIED OR EXPLICIT)
SINGLE PLAYER, TWO PLAYERS, OR MULTI PLAYERS

CHANGE MINDSET OR ATTITUDE ABOUT IT. CHANGE YOUR METAPHOR.

WHAT IS THE REAL GAME? IS LIFE ALL ABOUT LEARNING AND TRAINING?
THE REAL GAME IS LIVING INDEPENDENTLY, RAISING FAMILY, WORKING, SOCIALIZING.
UNLIKE COMPETITIVE GAME, THERE IS THIN LINE BETWEEN REAL GAME AND TRAINING. REAL GAME IS TRAINING, TRAINING IS THE REAL GAME. EITHER, WE ALWAYS PLAY REAL GAMES OR WE ARE ALWAYS LEARNING OR TRAINING. IN REAL LIFE, THERE IS NO SCORE TO KEEP, NO END OF REGULATION OR GAME, NO RACE TO KNOW IF WE WIN OR NOT. IT'S A GAME WHERE EVERYBODY CAN WIN. IT IS MORE LIKE EXERCISE WHERE WE WANT TO BE HEALTHY OURSELVES WITHOUT COMPETING WITH OTHERS. WE ARE ON THE SAME TEAM.

WE WILL MAKE MISTAKES, FALLS, LOSE MORE THAN WE WOULD WIN BEFORE WE CAN WALK.

IN A WAY, WE CAN COMPETE WITH OURSELVES TO IMPROVE OURSELVES, WE CAN COMPETE WITH OTHERS BUT NOT TO BEAT HIM BUT TO IMPROVE BOTH OF US, EVEN, WE CAN COMPETE WITH MULTIPLE PEOPLE TO IMPROVE AS A TEAM.

IT'S COMPETITION IN COOPERATION, NOT COOPERATION IN COMPETITION. ONE IS PEACE, ONE IS BATTLE.

THE REAL GAME IS THE SPIRIT OF COOPERATION. THE RESULT OR CONSEQUENCE. TO PRODUCE A STRONG PEACEFUL CREATIVE SOCIETY. THIS IS THE REAL GAME OR THE BIGGEST GAME. THE GAME OF SURVIVAL.

ALL THE LESSER GAMES THAT USE COMPETITION IS THE LEARNING/TRAINING TO MAKES US STRONGER IN JIWA DAN RAGA.

THERE ARE TWO KINDS OF GAME, GAME WHERE WE WIN WHEN WE ACHIEVE A GOAL AND GAME WHERE WE WIN WHEN WE BEAT OTHERS. IN THE FIRST GAME, WE "COMPETE WITH MYSELF" BY IMPROVING THE TIME OR THE SCORE. IN THE SECOND GAME, WE COMPETE BY SCORING MORE OR HAVING BETTER TIME WITH ANOTHER PERSON.

WE CAN COOPERATE TO COMPETE, BUT COMPETITION IS NOT THE END, BUT ONLY THE MEANS. THE END IS THE COOPERATION. THIS IS SPIRITUALITY.

WHAT WE ARE AFRAID OF IS LEARNING SOMETHING NEW. CHANGE INSTEAD OF STATUS QUO. WHERE CHALLENGE IS HIGHER THAN SKILLS.

STRESS IN GAMES IS DIFFERENT THAN GAMES IN STRESS
THE FIRST ONE IS NATURAL, THE SECOND ONE IS FAKE
AS IN DIFFERENCE BETWEEN PLAYING AND FIGHTING
GAMES ARE COOPERATION WHERE STRESS IS COMPETITION