DYSFUNCTIONAL

There is a difference between leadership and dependence
leadership occurs naturally from one own ability
where dependence create "boss" to control
dependence only act like a leader to control others
it's leadership chosen by itself
this boss actually doesn't know anything and manipulate others to follow his orders
they have false entitlement and it's a fascade
they rely on symbolic expression of love rather than the love itself
their whole life is symbolic
they threaten to take away cooperation if not complied
who they really are is pre-symbolic
pre symbolically, they have low empathy or sympathy for others but expect others to sympathize and empathic toward them
they have ego mania that crave attention and adulation
they latch themselves to others to meet their needs
they are helpless and underdeveloped and is afraid to grow up
they are needy like infants
they want others to meet their needs, but they don't want to meet others' needs
they want to control others' needs, but don't want to be controlled by others

false entitlement = rasa kepemilikan yang berlebihan