Duality

Good and bad, success and failure, live or die is the duality, the language of basic needs and emotion
We keep the good and reject the bad
But both the good and bad are ours
There is conflict of throwing away what is ours
The bad is left behind but not forgotten
Our mind is still trying to process this unfinished business to grow it
Due to our fragile ego, we transfer the bad to an object

How do we see and how do we think?
seeing and what is seen is two different things
we can see what is seen but we can't see seeing
this is an interesting phenomena of what mind is
Mind has objects, like our vision has objects
the subject is the person who see the object
There is an illusion in our thinking

We see the writing is different than how the paper see the writing. The letter itself doesn't see itself.
The paper has a Negative film view of the letter. We write and read from the same Positive film view of the letter. We create everything from this view. We even create blueprint in our mind in this view.
 In a way, it s like digital photography. Is there more traditional process of turning what we see negatively before being turned into positive and projected to mind?
Not with objects. Because it happens digitally. How we see is how we think.
But not with self, because we have to use a mirror. this is the illusion

We see self and what we want others to see self is different. We see self in the mirror of mind but we have to create what we want others to see self.