The nature of relationship

Relationship gets sick, old, and die like anything else
that leads to treatment, breakups, and divorce
some even commits suicide
some talks about "working at it", "recharging it"
fear about the love "slowly dying"
where it's possible that the relationship is transforming
the old nature dies and the new one to emerge
like a caterpillar and the butterfly
that there is nothing to work at
just simply to let go
that whatever is ours is ours
the more we try to work at it, the more we make a mess
what is relationship but our sense of trust
it's more than communication, it's more than interpersonal skills
that's why many people can con it, but can't maintain it
because everything comes and goes
but those con artists don't ever have it
they only have relationship under pretense
the problem in relationship is not communication or interpersonal
but our sense of trust
we either have a dysfunctional sense of trust
or we are in hostile environment.

what is love but our food, being loved
we can get malnourished for lack of being loved
we judge the quality of our relationship from how much are we loved
our relationship change when the quality of their love change
when they lose their attraction, when they are not as romantic
when they don't care as they used to
it's not about how we treat others
but how we are treated
we are mad/sad when our expectations are not being met
or when it is shared or given to others
when being asked "how close is our relationship with someone?"
we always review their behavior toward us as the closeness of the relationship
just like we have preference of what kind of food we like
we also have preference of what kind of people we like
where we ll suck the love out of them...