MOST ANIMAL WILD BEHAVIORS AND EMOTION HAS BEEN TAMED OR CIVILIZED BY SOCIETY/PARENTS AND BECOMES SHADOW.
THIS GIVES BIRTH TO HUMAN DESIRE GREED, LUST, GLUTTONY, ENVY, PRIDE, SLOTH, WRATH (7 DEADLY SINS).
ANIMAL HAS EMOTIONS, HUMAN HAS DESIRE.
THESE DESIRE IS AGAIN REPRESSED AND BECOMES SHADOW.
WE SUPRESSED ANY HUMAN BEHAVIOR THAT BROKE THE RULES/LAW, HURT OTHERS, INORDERLY, ACTING IN AND OUT, CHILDISH, SLOW, UGLY, WEAKNESSES, SOCIALLY UNDESIRABLE, IMMORAL, SICK, OLD, DEATH, PAIN, SUFFERING, NEGATIVE FEELING, NEGATIVITY, WRONG, VILLAIN.
WE SURPRESSED ANYTHING THAT IS NOT SOCIALLY DESIRABLE OR IDEAL.
ANY ANIMAL BEHAVIORS SUCH AS AGGRESSIVENESS, FEAR, ANXIETY AND HUMAN DESIRE SUCH AS GREED LUST GLOTTONY ENVY PRIDE SLOTH AND WRATH THAT COMES OUT IN CORRUPTION, THEFT, CRIMINAL BEHAVIORS. ANY CHEATING BEHAVIORS, MANIPULATION, CON BEHAVIORS.
SOCIETY IS TRYING TO MAINTAIN GOOD IMAGE AND HAS ITS OWN SHADOWS.
THIS IS WHY WE DON'T SEE OUR SHADOW BUT RECOGNIZE THE SHADOW IN OTHERS. BECAUSE WE ARE SELF RIGHTEOUS AND HYPOCRETE WHO SEE SELF AS SOCIALLY DESIRABLE AND RIGHTEOUS AND SUPERIOR AND TRYING TO MAINTAIN THAT IMAGE AND OUR SHADOW COMES ALIVE IN THE DARK. A LOT HAPPENS IN THE DARK.
WE DON'T SEE OUR SHADOW BECAUSE WE ARE TOO BUSY WEARING OUR MASK AND DOING PUBLIC RELATIONS AND DAMAGE CONTROL. WE CAN SEE OTHERS' MASK AND SHADOW BUT IT'S MORE DIFFICULT TO SEE OUR OWN SHADOWS BECAUSE IT WAS COVERED UP BY THE MASK.
WE ARE AFRAID TO LET OUR SHADOW OUT INTO THE LIGHT AND THERE IS RESISTANCE FOR FEAR OF WHAT COULD HAPPEN. WE ARE AFRAID OF OUR OWN SHADOW LIKE WE ARE AFRAID OF OTHERS' SHADOW. WE HATE AND ARE AFRAID OF OUR OWN SHADOW. OUR SHADOW IS OUR ENERGY AND THAT'S WHAT WE ARE AFRAID OF, TO BE POWERFUL.
A PERSON WHO HAS MUCH SHADOW HAS MANY IRRITATION AT OTHERS AND USUALLY AT THINGS THAT HE USUALLY DO. LIKE AN AGGRESSIVE SELFISH PERSON HATES ANOTHER AGGRESSIVE SELFISH PERSON. WE LIKE PARTS OF OTHERS THAT WE LIKE IN OURSELVES (PERSONA) AND WE HATE PART OF OTHERS THAT WE HATE IN OURSELVES (SHADOW)
THE PERSON IS ALSO USUALLY IDEALISTIC AND ORDERED. THE EXTREME CASE IS OBSESSIVE COMPULSIVE AND THE SHADOW IS THE OBJECT THAT IRRITATE HIM.
WE CAN SEE SHADOW EVERYWHERE, PROBLEMS, ESPECIALLY IN CLOSED RELATIONSHIP OR IN MEDIA. SHADOW APPEAR DUE TO PERSONA. LEARN TO BE SILLY. WHATEVER IS NOT ACCEPTED, LIKE CHILDLIKENESS, SILLINESS, PLAY, SENSITIVITY FOR GUYS.
WE GET TRAPPED IN OUR PERSONA. IT'S LIKE GRIPPED BY OUR PERSONA WHERE WE CAN'T MOVE. LIKE WE ARE HOLDING ON A PILLAR FOR SAFETY. WE FEAR REJECTION BEFORE WE UNDERSTAND REJECTION.
HOW I SEE MYSELF IS DIFFERENT THAN HOW I SEE OTHERS.
I SEE MYSELF AS SOCIALLY CIVILIZED AND DON'T SEE/DENY THE ANIMUS IN ME.
I EXPECT OTHERS TO BE SOCIALLY CIVILIZED AND TRY TO CORRECT THEIR ANIMUS
WHILE I EXPECT OTHERS TO BE CIVILIZED, I AM ACTING LIKE AN ANIMAL UNKNOWINGLY.
WE EXPECT OTHERS AND OTHERS EXPECT US TO PLAY BY THE RULES OF THE GROUP, BUT WE INDIVIDUALLY ARE NOT MADE TO FOLLOW BY THE RULES BUT FOLLOW OUR INDIVIDUATION PROCESS. WE PLAY OUR OWN GAMES IN SECRET AND PRETEND TO PLAY BY THE RULES. WE CALL PEOPLE WHO PLAY BY THE RULES "NICE".
IN RELATIONSHIP, I WANT MY FREEDOM BUT EXPECT OTHERS TO FOLLOW THE RULES OR MY RULES. OTHERS ALSO WANT THE SAME THING, THEY CAN DO WHATEVER THEY WANT BUT EXPECT OTHERS TO FOLLOW THEIR RULES.
Friday, August 10, 2012
SELF RIGHTEOUSNESS
IN CLOSED MIND, WE LIVE IN COMPLEX OR "SELF LEVEL" THINKING
THIS COMPLEX IS IMAGES NOT REPRESENTATION
THIS COMPLEX LOOKS REAL AND COMPLETE WITH THE REAL PERSONS.
THERE IS I AND OTHERS.
I IS MADE UP OF ACCEPTED PART OF SELF, OTHERS ARE MADE UP OF DENIED PART OF SELF THAT IS DISOWNED.
IN A WAY, WE ARE ALWAYS TALKING ABOUT OURSELVES. IT IS NOT SO IN THE MIND LEVEL. A PERSON MAY ACCEPT HIS DENIED PART HIMSELF IN PRIVATE, BUT IN PUBLIC, HE WILL PROJECT HIS DENIED PARTS TO OTHERS AND FAVOR HIMSELF.
THE PROBLEM IS SELF RIGHTEOUSNESS. I AM RIGHT AND OTHERS ARE WRONG.
SELF RIGHTEOUSNESS IS HYPOCRISY.
IN HYPOCRISY, WE BLAME OTHERS FOR SOMETHING NEGATIVE THAT WE ALWAYS DO.
IN HYPOCRISY, WE TAKE CREDITS FOR SOMETHING POSITIVE THAT WE DON'T DO AND DOWNPLAYS WHAT OTHERS DO.
AN ABUSER WILL COMPLAIN WHEN HE IS ABUSED.
A LIAR WILL COMPLAIN WHEN HE IS LIED TO.
HOW IS IT POSSIBLE THAT WE ARE BLIND TO OUR BEHAVIOR AND SEE IT IN OTHERS? LIKE A RIGHTEOUS COUNTRY OR RACE THAT ONLY SEE IT'S GOODNESS AND IS BLIND TO IT'S FLAW BUT SEE OTHERS FLAWS AND DOWNPLAY GOODNESS. IS IT ONLY POWER TRIP? OR A COMPANY OR POLITICIAN WHO MAINTAIN POSITIVE IMAGE AND DAMAGE CONTROL NEGATIVE IMAGE?
SELF RIGHTEOUSNESS IS IMAGE BASED.
WE CONDEMN THOSE WE HATE MOST IN OUR SELVES TO HIDE IT.
IF WE HATE IT, WE DON'T HAVE IT.
AN AGGRESSIVE PERSON HATES ANOTHER AGGRESSIVE PERSON
WE DON'T RECOGNIZE OUR OWN THINKING ERRORS, BUT WE RECOGNIZE OTHERS'
HOW I SEE OTHERS IS NOT SIMILAR TO HOW I SEE MYSELF
HOW I SEE OTHERS IS SIMILAR TO HOW OTHERS SEE ME OR
HOW I SEE MYSELF IS SIMILAR TO HOW OTHERS SEE THEMSELVES
WE COMPLAIN ABOUT OUR OWN FLAWS, THE SAME FLAWS THAT WE HAVE
WE ONLY COMPLAIN ABOUT OUR FLAW, USUALLY IN OTHERS.
BECAUSE WE RECOGNIZE THEM
WE HIDE THOSE WEAKNESSES, INSTEAD, WE TALK ABOUT THE SAME FLAWS IN OTHERS
A PERSON WHO IS BULLIED WILL BULLY
IT FEELS GOOD TO BULLY AND BAD TO BE BULLIED
MUJI DIRI SENDIRI, EJEK ORANG LAIN
EJEK ORANG LAIN DENGAN PERBUATAN SENDIRI???
SEEING THE FLAW IN 3RD PERSON?
BLAMING IS SELF DESCRIPTION
IT TAKES ONE TO KNOW ONE
ANOTHER PERSON CARRY THE SHADOW, WE REACT, BECAUSE WE DON'T LIKE TO DEAL WITH IT. THAT'S WHY I REPRESS IT.
IT IS UNCONSCIOUS, IT WILL HAVE TO COME OUT IN A 3RD PERSON
IT WILL APPEAR IN OTHERS' AND WILL REAPPEAR THROUGHOUT LIFE BECAUSE IT IS PART OF US AND STILL HAS ENERGY UNTIL IT IS RECOGNIZED.
OUR SHADOW ATTRACT OTHERS' SHADOW. THAT'S WHY ABUSED PERSON ALWAYS IS ATTRACTED TO ABUSERS.
SHADOW IS ALIVE UNTIL RECOGNIZED AND JOIN EGO.
SHADOW TURN ON PERSONA, THEY ARE LIKE SIBLINGS
EGO IS PARENTS. CONFLICT BETWEEN EGO AND SHADOWS IS THE COMPLEX
EGO IS ASHAMED OF SHADOW AND USE PERSONA AS MASK
WE ARE ASHAMED OF SHADOW BECAUSE WE ARE AFRAID IT WILL COME OUT AND GET CAUGHT
THERE IS I, THE REST IS NOT I
WHAT IS NOT OWNED IS NOT MINE
IT IS OTHERS. BLAMING IS NOT BEING RESPONSIBLE.
DR JEKKYL AND MR. HYDE.
IF THINGS ARE TRUE, WHY REACT?
IF THINGS ARE FALSE, WHY REACT?
IF THINGS ARE TRUE BUT PRETENDED TO BE FALSE, WE REACT
IF THINGS ARE FALSE BUT PRETENDED TO BE TRUE, WE REACT
TOXIC IS ANXIETY FOR ANOTHER PERSON'S ANXIETY.
THIS COMPLEX IS IMAGES NOT REPRESENTATION
THIS COMPLEX LOOKS REAL AND COMPLETE WITH THE REAL PERSONS.
THERE IS I AND OTHERS.
I IS MADE UP OF ACCEPTED PART OF SELF, OTHERS ARE MADE UP OF DENIED PART OF SELF THAT IS DISOWNED.
IN A WAY, WE ARE ALWAYS TALKING ABOUT OURSELVES. IT IS NOT SO IN THE MIND LEVEL. A PERSON MAY ACCEPT HIS DENIED PART HIMSELF IN PRIVATE, BUT IN PUBLIC, HE WILL PROJECT HIS DENIED PARTS TO OTHERS AND FAVOR HIMSELF.
THE PROBLEM IS SELF RIGHTEOUSNESS. I AM RIGHT AND OTHERS ARE WRONG.
SELF RIGHTEOUSNESS IS HYPOCRISY.
IN HYPOCRISY, WE BLAME OTHERS FOR SOMETHING NEGATIVE THAT WE ALWAYS DO.
IN HYPOCRISY, WE TAKE CREDITS FOR SOMETHING POSITIVE THAT WE DON'T DO AND DOWNPLAYS WHAT OTHERS DO.
AN ABUSER WILL COMPLAIN WHEN HE IS ABUSED.
A LIAR WILL COMPLAIN WHEN HE IS LIED TO.
HOW IS IT POSSIBLE THAT WE ARE BLIND TO OUR BEHAVIOR AND SEE IT IN OTHERS? LIKE A RIGHTEOUS COUNTRY OR RACE THAT ONLY SEE IT'S GOODNESS AND IS BLIND TO IT'S FLAW BUT SEE OTHERS FLAWS AND DOWNPLAY GOODNESS. IS IT ONLY POWER TRIP? OR A COMPANY OR POLITICIAN WHO MAINTAIN POSITIVE IMAGE AND DAMAGE CONTROL NEGATIVE IMAGE?
SELF RIGHTEOUSNESS IS IMAGE BASED.
WE CONDEMN THOSE WE HATE MOST IN OUR SELVES TO HIDE IT.
IF WE HATE IT, WE DON'T HAVE IT.
AN AGGRESSIVE PERSON HATES ANOTHER AGGRESSIVE PERSON
WE DON'T RECOGNIZE OUR OWN THINKING ERRORS, BUT WE RECOGNIZE OTHERS'
HOW I SEE OTHERS IS NOT SIMILAR TO HOW I SEE MYSELF
HOW I SEE OTHERS IS SIMILAR TO HOW OTHERS SEE ME OR
HOW I SEE MYSELF IS SIMILAR TO HOW OTHERS SEE THEMSELVES
WE COMPLAIN ABOUT OUR OWN FLAWS, THE SAME FLAWS THAT WE HAVE
WE ONLY COMPLAIN ABOUT OUR FLAW, USUALLY IN OTHERS.
BECAUSE WE RECOGNIZE THEM
WE HIDE THOSE WEAKNESSES, INSTEAD, WE TALK ABOUT THE SAME FLAWS IN OTHERS
A PERSON WHO IS BULLIED WILL BULLY
IT FEELS GOOD TO BULLY AND BAD TO BE BULLIED
MUJI DIRI SENDIRI, EJEK ORANG LAIN
EJEK ORANG LAIN DENGAN PERBUATAN SENDIRI???
SEEING THE FLAW IN 3RD PERSON?
BLAMING IS SELF DESCRIPTION
IT TAKES ONE TO KNOW ONE
ANOTHER PERSON CARRY THE SHADOW, WE REACT, BECAUSE WE DON'T LIKE TO DEAL WITH IT. THAT'S WHY I REPRESS IT.
IT IS UNCONSCIOUS, IT WILL HAVE TO COME OUT IN A 3RD PERSON
IT WILL APPEAR IN OTHERS' AND WILL REAPPEAR THROUGHOUT LIFE BECAUSE IT IS PART OF US AND STILL HAS ENERGY UNTIL IT IS RECOGNIZED.
OUR SHADOW ATTRACT OTHERS' SHADOW. THAT'S WHY ABUSED PERSON ALWAYS IS ATTRACTED TO ABUSERS.
SHADOW IS ALIVE UNTIL RECOGNIZED AND JOIN EGO.
SHADOW TURN ON PERSONA, THEY ARE LIKE SIBLINGS
EGO IS PARENTS. CONFLICT BETWEEN EGO AND SHADOWS IS THE COMPLEX
EGO IS ASHAMED OF SHADOW AND USE PERSONA AS MASK
WE ARE ASHAMED OF SHADOW BECAUSE WE ARE AFRAID IT WILL COME OUT AND GET CAUGHT
THERE IS I, THE REST IS NOT I
WHAT IS NOT OWNED IS NOT MINE
IT IS OTHERS. BLAMING IS NOT BEING RESPONSIBLE.
DR JEKKYL AND MR. HYDE.
IF THINGS ARE TRUE, WHY REACT?
IF THINGS ARE FALSE, WHY REACT?
IF THINGS ARE TRUE BUT PRETENDED TO BE FALSE, WE REACT
IF THINGS ARE FALSE BUT PRETENDED TO BE TRUE, WE REACT
TOXIC IS ANXIETY FOR ANOTHER PERSON'S ANXIETY.
Thursday, August 9, 2012
MEANING AND STRUCTURE
WHEN TALKING, WE DON'T CONCERN WITH TALKING ITSELF.
WE CONCERN WITH THE CREATING OF THE TALKING, THE THINKING.
WE CONCERN WITH MEANING.
WHEN WE LISTEN, WE CONCERN WITH THE LISTENING.
WE CONCERN WITH STRUCTURE OF THE LANGUAGE, ONLY THE STRUCTURE.
ACTUALLY, COMMUNICATION INVOLVES LISTENING AND CREATING IDEA AND TALKING. THE LISTENING AND TALKING CONCERN WITH STRUCTURE, THEY ARE LINGUISTIC MECHANIC. OUR LEFT BRAIN LOOK FOR STRUCTURE IN PARTICIPATING AND CREATING CONVERSATION.
HOWEVER, STRUCTURE DOESN'T CREATE PROBLEMS AS MUCH AS MEANING. IT HAPPENS IN THE SECOND STEP.
WE CREATE MEANING (IDEA) ALL THE TIME AND SOMETIMES AS THE RESULT OF HEARING SOMETHING OR SEEING SOMETHING (FROM ENVIRONMENT) AND WE SOMETIMES USE SYMBOLS (LANGUAGE) TO CHANGE ENVIRONMENT OR SIMPLY AS ENJOYMENT, MOSTLY TO CHANGE SOMETHING.
IGNORANT BELIEVES TALKING AND LISTENING CAN MOVE THINGS, LIKE TALKING TO A CHAIR CAN MOVE A CHAIR. LIKE THINKING ABOUT MOVING A CHAIR CAN MOVE A CHAIR. TO MOVE A CHAIR, WE HAVE TO MOVE THE CHAIR.
SO THEY HAVE AN IDEA AND USE TALKING AND LISTENING TO REALIZE THEIR IDEA. SO COMMUNICATION IS NOT EXCHANGE OF IDEA, IT IS REALIZATION OF SOMEONE'S IDEA OR AGENDA. TALKING AND LISTENING IS ONLY TOOLS TO MAKE US FEEL CERTAIN WAY. LIKE MUSIC, WE SING OR LISTEN TO MUSIC TO MAKE US FEEL CERTAIN WAY. THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING: HOW DOES IT MAKE ME FEEL.
THINKING IS A STREAM THAT FLOWS CONTINOUSLY. OUR FEELING AND HABITUAL SENSES AND ACTION ARE LIKE WAVE THAT GO UP AND DOWN WITH THE STREAM. OUR CONSCIOUS THINKING, SENSING AND ACTIONS ARE LIKE THE INCOMPETENT BOAT. THIS IS OUR SELF CONSCIOUSNESS THAT ARISE WITH INCOMPETENCE.
THE STRONGER THE BOAT FIGHT, THE STRONGER THE STREAM AND THE WAVE. BECAUSE THE STREAM AND WAVE IS STRONGER THAN THE BOAT. WHAT THE BOAT WANTS IS DIFFERENT THAN THE STREAM'S AND THE BOAT IS TOO SMALL IS PART OF THE STREAM. OUR SELF CONSCIOUSNESS IS TOO SMALL AND IS PART OF OUR MIND-BODY (HABITUAL (NATURE-NURTURE/BODY-MIND) PROCESS).
SELF CONSCIOUSNESS IS THE LEFTOVER FROM THE PAST, THE FREEZING REACTION OF FEAR. IN HUMAN, IT IS DELAYED FEAR DUE TO COGNITION. OUR MIND IS IN CLOSED- MODE AND WE TAKE OVER TO MANUALLY STEER THE BOAT INSTEAD OF LETTING AUTOPILOT.
TALKING AND LISTENING ARE ACTION, MORE POWERFUL THAN ACTION OR BODY LANGUAGE BECAUSE OF THE LIMITLESS ABILITY OF LANGUAGE. WE CAN'T DIRECT PEOPLE PHYSICALLY BECAUSE IT IS ILLEGAL. WE CAN'T DIRECT PEOPLE EMOTIONALLY (NGAMBEK) BECAUSE IT IS UPSETTING. ACTUALLY, OUR ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN OUR WORDS IF WE STOP GIVING POWER TO THE WORDS.
TALKING AND LISTENING IS NOT AS IMPORTANT AS THE IDEA/MEANING A PERSON'S TRYING TO REALIZE.
OUR ACTION AND THINKING MAY LOOK CONSCIOUS TO US, BUT WE CAN SEE IN OTHERS THAT IT IS UNCONSCIOUS, BECAUSE WE ONLY SEE WHAT IS CONSCIOUS. LIKE WE HAVE A BIG SCREEN AND CAN ONLY SEE THE SCREEN IN FRONT OF US. BUT OTHERS WHO SEE US CAN SEE THE STREAM AND WAVES.
SO, WE TRY TO STEER THE BOAT MANUALLY, BUT THE STREAM AND WAVES ARE GETTING STRONGER BECAUSE WE ARE FIGHTING THE STREAM. WE FORCE THE BOAT TO GO AGAINST THE STREAM OR WE ARE TRYING TO STOP THE STREAM OR CALM THE WAVES.
SO, WHAT MATTERS IS NOT THE TALKING OR LISTENING, IS HE FIGHTING THE STREAM? DOES HE HAVE A STRONG OR MILD STREAM AND WAVES? IS HE IN DENIAL? IS A PERSON TRY TO STOP THE STREAM OR CALM THE WAVES?
IN LISTENING, JUST PAY ATTENTION TO THE MODES OF COMMUNICATION, REPORT, INFERENCE, AND JUDGEMENT. IN TALKING, PAY ATTENTION TO THE MODES OF THINKING, DIRECT EXPERIENCE, REPRESENTATION, AND IMAGES.
BECAUSE WHEN TALKING, WE DON'T PAY ATTENTION TO THE TALKING. WE WILL SAY WHATEVER TO GET SOMETHING OR TO MAKE ME FEEL SOMETHING. WE CAN BE FOOLED BY THE LISTENING.
SENSING IS REACTING.
SENSING (6 SENSES) - ACTION - SENSING (FEEDBACK) - ACTION
EXPERIENCE IS LIKE A STREAM.
OUR ACTION DEPENDS ON OUR SENSING, ESPECIALLY THE MIND SENSE WHO SENSE "THE WORLD". WHAT KIND OF WORLD DO WE LIVE AT?
COMMUNICATING (TALKING AND WRITING) IS ACTION. THINKING AND FEELING ARE NOT. THEY ARE SENSES. THEY ARE SOMETHING WE PERCEIVE. HOWEVER, VERBAL THINKING IS ACTION. SOMETHING WE CAN CREATE.
WE CONCERN WITH THE CREATING OF THE TALKING, THE THINKING.
WE CONCERN WITH MEANING.
WHEN WE LISTEN, WE CONCERN WITH THE LISTENING.
WE CONCERN WITH STRUCTURE OF THE LANGUAGE, ONLY THE STRUCTURE.
ACTUALLY, COMMUNICATION INVOLVES LISTENING AND CREATING IDEA AND TALKING. THE LISTENING AND TALKING CONCERN WITH STRUCTURE, THEY ARE LINGUISTIC MECHANIC. OUR LEFT BRAIN LOOK FOR STRUCTURE IN PARTICIPATING AND CREATING CONVERSATION.
HOWEVER, STRUCTURE DOESN'T CREATE PROBLEMS AS MUCH AS MEANING. IT HAPPENS IN THE SECOND STEP.
WE CREATE MEANING (IDEA) ALL THE TIME AND SOMETIMES AS THE RESULT OF HEARING SOMETHING OR SEEING SOMETHING (FROM ENVIRONMENT) AND WE SOMETIMES USE SYMBOLS (LANGUAGE) TO CHANGE ENVIRONMENT OR SIMPLY AS ENJOYMENT, MOSTLY TO CHANGE SOMETHING.
IGNORANT BELIEVES TALKING AND LISTENING CAN MOVE THINGS, LIKE TALKING TO A CHAIR CAN MOVE A CHAIR. LIKE THINKING ABOUT MOVING A CHAIR CAN MOVE A CHAIR. TO MOVE A CHAIR, WE HAVE TO MOVE THE CHAIR.
SO THEY HAVE AN IDEA AND USE TALKING AND LISTENING TO REALIZE THEIR IDEA. SO COMMUNICATION IS NOT EXCHANGE OF IDEA, IT IS REALIZATION OF SOMEONE'S IDEA OR AGENDA. TALKING AND LISTENING IS ONLY TOOLS TO MAKE US FEEL CERTAIN WAY. LIKE MUSIC, WE SING OR LISTEN TO MUSIC TO MAKE US FEEL CERTAIN WAY. THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING: HOW DOES IT MAKE ME FEEL.
THINKING IS A STREAM THAT FLOWS CONTINOUSLY. OUR FEELING AND HABITUAL SENSES AND ACTION ARE LIKE WAVE THAT GO UP AND DOWN WITH THE STREAM. OUR CONSCIOUS THINKING, SENSING AND ACTIONS ARE LIKE THE INCOMPETENT BOAT. THIS IS OUR SELF CONSCIOUSNESS THAT ARISE WITH INCOMPETENCE.
THE STRONGER THE BOAT FIGHT, THE STRONGER THE STREAM AND THE WAVE. BECAUSE THE STREAM AND WAVE IS STRONGER THAN THE BOAT. WHAT THE BOAT WANTS IS DIFFERENT THAN THE STREAM'S AND THE BOAT IS TOO SMALL IS PART OF THE STREAM. OUR SELF CONSCIOUSNESS IS TOO SMALL AND IS PART OF OUR MIND-BODY (HABITUAL (NATURE-NURTURE/BODY-MIND) PROCESS).
SELF CONSCIOUSNESS IS THE LEFTOVER FROM THE PAST, THE FREEZING REACTION OF FEAR. IN HUMAN, IT IS DELAYED FEAR DUE TO COGNITION. OUR MIND IS IN CLOSED- MODE AND WE TAKE OVER TO MANUALLY STEER THE BOAT INSTEAD OF LETTING AUTOPILOT.
TALKING AND LISTENING ARE ACTION, MORE POWERFUL THAN ACTION OR BODY LANGUAGE BECAUSE OF THE LIMITLESS ABILITY OF LANGUAGE. WE CAN'T DIRECT PEOPLE PHYSICALLY BECAUSE IT IS ILLEGAL. WE CAN'T DIRECT PEOPLE EMOTIONALLY (NGAMBEK) BECAUSE IT IS UPSETTING. ACTUALLY, OUR ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN OUR WORDS IF WE STOP GIVING POWER TO THE WORDS.
TALKING AND LISTENING IS NOT AS IMPORTANT AS THE IDEA/MEANING A PERSON'S TRYING TO REALIZE.
OUR ACTION AND THINKING MAY LOOK CONSCIOUS TO US, BUT WE CAN SEE IN OTHERS THAT IT IS UNCONSCIOUS, BECAUSE WE ONLY SEE WHAT IS CONSCIOUS. LIKE WE HAVE A BIG SCREEN AND CAN ONLY SEE THE SCREEN IN FRONT OF US. BUT OTHERS WHO SEE US CAN SEE THE STREAM AND WAVES.
SO, WE TRY TO STEER THE BOAT MANUALLY, BUT THE STREAM AND WAVES ARE GETTING STRONGER BECAUSE WE ARE FIGHTING THE STREAM. WE FORCE THE BOAT TO GO AGAINST THE STREAM OR WE ARE TRYING TO STOP THE STREAM OR CALM THE WAVES.
SO, WHAT MATTERS IS NOT THE TALKING OR LISTENING, IS HE FIGHTING THE STREAM? DOES HE HAVE A STRONG OR MILD STREAM AND WAVES? IS HE IN DENIAL? IS A PERSON TRY TO STOP THE STREAM OR CALM THE WAVES?
IN LISTENING, JUST PAY ATTENTION TO THE MODES OF COMMUNICATION, REPORT, INFERENCE, AND JUDGEMENT. IN TALKING, PAY ATTENTION TO THE MODES OF THINKING, DIRECT EXPERIENCE, REPRESENTATION, AND IMAGES.
BECAUSE WHEN TALKING, WE DON'T PAY ATTENTION TO THE TALKING. WE WILL SAY WHATEVER TO GET SOMETHING OR TO MAKE ME FEEL SOMETHING. WE CAN BE FOOLED BY THE LISTENING.
SENSING IS REACTING.
SENSING (6 SENSES) - ACTION - SENSING (FEEDBACK) - ACTION
EXPERIENCE IS LIKE A STREAM.
OUR ACTION DEPENDS ON OUR SENSING, ESPECIALLY THE MIND SENSE WHO SENSE "THE WORLD". WHAT KIND OF WORLD DO WE LIVE AT?
COMMUNICATING (TALKING AND WRITING) IS ACTION. THINKING AND FEELING ARE NOT. THEY ARE SENSES. THEY ARE SOMETHING WE PERCEIVE. HOWEVER, VERBAL THINKING IS ACTION. SOMETHING WE CAN CREATE.
Wednesday, August 8, 2012
MODE OF THINKING
THERE ARE 3 MODES OF COMMUNICATION: REPORT, INFERENCE, OR JUDGEMENT. I REPORT WHAT I SENSE, I INFER USING ANALOGY OR METAPHOR OF TRANSITIV ACTION OR ABSTRACT OBJECTS. I THEN GIVES MORAL OR SOCIAL JUDGEMENT. JUDGEMENT IS AN EVALUATION AFTER THE FACT BASED ON GROUP STANDARDS.
THERE ARE 3 MODES OF THINKING: DIRECT EXPERIENCE, REPRESENTATION, AND IMAGES. WE MOSTLY DON'T EXPERIENCE DIRECTLY, WE MOSTLY USE REPRESENTATION OR IMAGES. OBJECT WISE, THERE ARE PRESENT AND ABSENT CONCRETE OBJECTS, AND ALWAYS ABSENT ABSTRACT OBJECTS. WE USE AN OBJECT FOR ANOTHER OBJECT TO DESCRIBE ITS ACTIVITY, ESPECIALLY THE ABSTRACT OBJECTS. WE PERSONALIZE BEHAVIOR, MR. MOONLIGHT, ANIMAL CAN TALK, AND ABSTRACT (SIMILARITY) OBJECTS, LIKE LIFE IS A BATTLE, LOVE IS A JOURNEY, ETC.
IN RE-PRESENT-ATION, THE CONCRETE OBJECT IS PRESENT, BUT WE PAY ATTENTION TO THE REPRESENTATION. THIS IS THE ONLY CHANCE FOR DIRECT EXPERIENCE IF WE WANT TO. WE EXPERIENCE HALF OF THE WHOLE SINCE THERE IS THE REAL OBJECT PRESENTS.
FOR ABSENT CONCRETE AND ABSTRACT OBJECTS AND METAPHOR, WE USE IMAGES. WE USE "COMPLEX" THAT GIVE "SELF" TO EVERYTHING. WE CREATE AND EXPERIENCE THE WHOLE OBJECTS AND EVENTS.
WHEN WE EXPERIENCE DIRECTLY, WE USE MINIMAL INTERVENTION OF MIND IN EXPERIENCING PRESENT CONCRETE OBJECTS. WE USE MULTISENSES. WHEN OUR REPRESENTATION AND IMAGES DROP, WE HAVE DIRECT EXPERIENCE. DIRECT EXPERIENCE IS SENSICAL.
CONSCIOUSNESS IS SELF CONSCIOUSNESS. WHAT IS DIFFERENT ABOUT BEING AWAKE AND ASLEEP IS THE SENSES.
IMAGE MODES IS AUTOBIOGRAPHICAL AND SIGN-IC THAT SIMULATE AND IMAGINE A WHOLE OBJECT SELF WHO HAS ITS OWN STORY. REPRESENTATION MODES IS ICONIC AND MECHANICAL. IT IS SYMBOLIC AND DOES NOT LIVE ON ITSELF BECAUSE IT DOES NOT HAVE A SELF. IT IS "NAME ONLY"
IN IMAGE MODES, WE INVEST ALL ENERGY IN THE IMAGES. IN REPRESENTATION, WE INVEST HALF ENERGY IN THEM BECAUSE WE STILL INVEST HALF ENERGY IN THE OBJECTS.
IMAGE MODES IS "TIME TO THINK" EVENT AND REPRESENTATION MODE IS "IN YOUR FACE" EVENT.
TIC OR LATAH IS A PERSON WHO GET CAUGHT IN "IMAGE" MODE IN "IN YOUR FACE" EVENT.
IMAGE MODE IS LIKE VIDEO GAMES APPLICATION AND REPRESENTATION IS MORE LIKE PROCESSING APPLICATION. REPRESENTATION IS LESS PLEASURABLE BECAUSE IT IS MORE "REAL", THERE IS INPUT FROM EXTERNAL SOURCE AND IT IS MORE "FACTUAL". IMAGE MODE IS MORE PLEASURABLE BECAUSE IT IS FANTASICAL. THE IMAGE IS THE OBJECT, WE PROJECT OUR SELVES INTO THE IMAGES. WE MAKE IT COMES ALIVE "ENERGIZE" IT AND WE REACT TO IT. WE EVEN CAN DRIFT INTO IMAGE MODE IN THE PRESENCE OF THE CONCRETE OBJECTS.
WE CAN TURN VERB, ADJECTIVE INTO NOUN. IN IMAGE MODE, NOUN HAS ITS OWN SELF.
THERE IS CONFLICT BETWEEN IMAGE AND REPRESENTATION OF THE SAME OBJECTS IN OUR MIND, LIKE "MYSELF". THEN, WE "IMAGE" ABOUT WHAT I REALLY THINK ABOUT MYSELF AND COMPARE IT TO WHAT I FANTASIZE ABOUT IT. WHAT I REALLY THINK ABOUT MYSELF AND WHAT I FANTASIZE ABOUT MYSELF.
SO, IMAGE MODE INVOLVE ABSENT CONCRETE AND ABSTRACT NOUNS, ANYTHING THAT CAN BE "METAPHORED" INTO NOUNS.
IN COMMUNICATION, WE CAN REPORT REPRESENTATION AND IMAGES MODE (MOSTLY) OR DIRECT EXPERIENCE. WE INFER AND MAKE JUDGEMENTS IMAGES MODE ONLY.
WE INTERACT BY SENDING AND RECEIVING MESSAGES. WE PAY ATTENTION TO THE MODES OF COMMUNICATION WHEN RECEIVING MESSAGES. WE PAY ATTENTION TO THE MODES OF THINKING WHEN TALKING. TALKING IS NOT THE IMPORTANT PART, BECAUSE TALKING IS ONLY THE LAST STEP. WHAT IS IMPORTANT IS THE PROCESS OF CREATING THE MESSAGE IN THE MIND, THE TALKING IN THE MIND.
THERE ARE 3 MODES OF THINKING: DIRECT EXPERIENCE, REPRESENTATION, AND IMAGES. WE MOSTLY DON'T EXPERIENCE DIRECTLY, WE MOSTLY USE REPRESENTATION OR IMAGES. OBJECT WISE, THERE ARE PRESENT AND ABSENT CONCRETE OBJECTS, AND ALWAYS ABSENT ABSTRACT OBJECTS. WE USE AN OBJECT FOR ANOTHER OBJECT TO DESCRIBE ITS ACTIVITY, ESPECIALLY THE ABSTRACT OBJECTS. WE PERSONALIZE BEHAVIOR, MR. MOONLIGHT, ANIMAL CAN TALK, AND ABSTRACT (SIMILARITY) OBJECTS, LIKE LIFE IS A BATTLE, LOVE IS A JOURNEY, ETC.
IN RE-PRESENT-ATION, THE CONCRETE OBJECT IS PRESENT, BUT WE PAY ATTENTION TO THE REPRESENTATION. THIS IS THE ONLY CHANCE FOR DIRECT EXPERIENCE IF WE WANT TO. WE EXPERIENCE HALF OF THE WHOLE SINCE THERE IS THE REAL OBJECT PRESENTS.
FOR ABSENT CONCRETE AND ABSTRACT OBJECTS AND METAPHOR, WE USE IMAGES. WE USE "COMPLEX" THAT GIVE "SELF" TO EVERYTHING. WE CREATE AND EXPERIENCE THE WHOLE OBJECTS AND EVENTS.
WHEN WE EXPERIENCE DIRECTLY, WE USE MINIMAL INTERVENTION OF MIND IN EXPERIENCING PRESENT CONCRETE OBJECTS. WE USE MULTISENSES. WHEN OUR REPRESENTATION AND IMAGES DROP, WE HAVE DIRECT EXPERIENCE. DIRECT EXPERIENCE IS SENSICAL.
CONSCIOUSNESS IS SELF CONSCIOUSNESS. WHAT IS DIFFERENT ABOUT BEING AWAKE AND ASLEEP IS THE SENSES.
IMAGE MODES IS AUTOBIOGRAPHICAL AND SIGN-IC THAT SIMULATE AND IMAGINE A WHOLE OBJECT SELF WHO HAS ITS OWN STORY. REPRESENTATION MODES IS ICONIC AND MECHANICAL. IT IS SYMBOLIC AND DOES NOT LIVE ON ITSELF BECAUSE IT DOES NOT HAVE A SELF. IT IS "NAME ONLY"
IN IMAGE MODES, WE INVEST ALL ENERGY IN THE IMAGES. IN REPRESENTATION, WE INVEST HALF ENERGY IN THEM BECAUSE WE STILL INVEST HALF ENERGY IN THE OBJECTS.
IMAGE MODES IS "TIME TO THINK" EVENT AND REPRESENTATION MODE IS "IN YOUR FACE" EVENT.
TIC OR LATAH IS A PERSON WHO GET CAUGHT IN "IMAGE" MODE IN "IN YOUR FACE" EVENT.
IMAGE MODE IS LIKE VIDEO GAMES APPLICATION AND REPRESENTATION IS MORE LIKE PROCESSING APPLICATION. REPRESENTATION IS LESS PLEASURABLE BECAUSE IT IS MORE "REAL", THERE IS INPUT FROM EXTERNAL SOURCE AND IT IS MORE "FACTUAL". IMAGE MODE IS MORE PLEASURABLE BECAUSE IT IS FANTASICAL. THE IMAGE IS THE OBJECT, WE PROJECT OUR SELVES INTO THE IMAGES. WE MAKE IT COMES ALIVE "ENERGIZE" IT AND WE REACT TO IT. WE EVEN CAN DRIFT INTO IMAGE MODE IN THE PRESENCE OF THE CONCRETE OBJECTS.
WE CAN TURN VERB, ADJECTIVE INTO NOUN. IN IMAGE MODE, NOUN HAS ITS OWN SELF.
THERE IS CONFLICT BETWEEN IMAGE AND REPRESENTATION OF THE SAME OBJECTS IN OUR MIND, LIKE "MYSELF". THEN, WE "IMAGE" ABOUT WHAT I REALLY THINK ABOUT MYSELF AND COMPARE IT TO WHAT I FANTASIZE ABOUT IT. WHAT I REALLY THINK ABOUT MYSELF AND WHAT I FANTASIZE ABOUT MYSELF.
SO, IMAGE MODE INVOLVE ABSENT CONCRETE AND ABSTRACT NOUNS, ANYTHING THAT CAN BE "METAPHORED" INTO NOUNS.
IN COMMUNICATION, WE CAN REPORT REPRESENTATION AND IMAGES MODE (MOSTLY) OR DIRECT EXPERIENCE. WE INFER AND MAKE JUDGEMENTS IMAGES MODE ONLY.
WE INTERACT BY SENDING AND RECEIVING MESSAGES. WE PAY ATTENTION TO THE MODES OF COMMUNICATION WHEN RECEIVING MESSAGES. WE PAY ATTENTION TO THE MODES OF THINKING WHEN TALKING. TALKING IS NOT THE IMPORTANT PART, BECAUSE TALKING IS ONLY THE LAST STEP. WHAT IS IMPORTANT IS THE PROCESS OF CREATING THE MESSAGE IN THE MIND, THE TALKING IN THE MIND.
Sunday, August 5, 2012
FEELING AND GAMES
IF EMOTION IS PHYSICAL SENSE, WHAT IS EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE OR MANAGEMENT?
TRAINING THE PHYSICAL SELF AND THE COMPLEXES
CHANGING ACTIVITIES OR ENVIRONMENT THAT LIFE IS PLEASANT
LETTING NATURAL SYSTEM FLOW RATHER THAN MANIPULATING THEM TO GAIN PLEASURE
IF YOU FEEL PAIN AND THERE IS NO PHYSICAL CAUSE, THAT MEANS YOU ARE LOSING GAMES.
PLAY GAMES BUT DON'T CHEAT
OLAH RAGA ATAU OLAH JIWA
LIFE IS A GAME, GAMES ARE LIKE LIFE
WHY PLAY SIMULATED LIFE, IF YOU CAN PLAY REAL LIFE?
IN REAL LIFE, THE ANTE IS MUCH HIGHER
THERE ARE CHEATERS IN LIFE
USE SIMULATED GAMES TO TRAIN AND LEARN, OLAH RAGA DAN OLAH JIWA
EXERCISE AND LEARNING
PLAYERS WHO CAN PLAY WITH REAL LIFE DON'T NEED TO PLAY WITH SIMULATED GAMES
PLAYERS WHO CAN PLAY WITH REAL PEOPLE DON'T NEED TO PLAY WITH DOLLS AND TOYS
DON'T BREAK RULES AND DON'T CHEAT
CHEATING IS DENYING BREAKING THE RULES
TO PLAY A GAME, YOU NEED SKILLS AND RULES
AND YOU NEED CREATIVITY TO PLAY THE GAMES
FILL YOUR LIFE WITH GAMES, BUT PICK GAMES THAT PREPARE YOU FOR REAL LIFE
PLAYING AND GAMES ARE NOT RECREATION OR ENTERTAINMENT OR RELIEF FROM LIFE
MAKE YOUR LIFE AS PLAYING, GAMES, RECREATION OR ENTERTAINMENT.
PLAY GAMES THAT HELPS YOU NOT HURT YOU
FOLLOW THE RULES OR PLAY GAMES WITH CONSENT (IMPLIED OR EXPLICIT)
SINGLE PLAYER, TWO PLAYERS, OR MULTI PLAYERS
CHANGE MINDSET OR ATTITUDE ABOUT IT. CHANGE YOUR METAPHOR.
WHAT IS THE REAL GAME? IS LIFE ALL ABOUT LEARNING AND TRAINING?
THE REAL GAME IS LIVING INDEPENDENTLY, RAISING FAMILY, WORKING, SOCIALIZING.
UNLIKE COMPETITIVE GAME, THERE IS THIN LINE BETWEEN REAL GAME AND TRAINING. REAL GAME IS TRAINING, TRAINING IS THE REAL GAME. EITHER, WE ALWAYS PLAY REAL GAMES OR WE ARE ALWAYS LEARNING OR TRAINING. IN REAL LIFE, THERE IS NO SCORE TO KEEP, NO END OF REGULATION OR GAME, NO RACE TO KNOW IF WE WIN OR NOT. IT'S A GAME WHERE EVERYBODY CAN WIN. IT IS MORE LIKE EXERCISE WHERE WE WANT TO BE HEALTHY OURSELVES WITHOUT COMPETING WITH OTHERS. WE ARE ON THE SAME TEAM.
WE WILL MAKE MISTAKES, FALLS, LOSE MORE THAN WE WOULD WIN BEFORE WE CAN WALK.
IN A WAY, WE CAN COMPETE WITH OURSELVES TO IMPROVE OURSELVES, WE CAN COMPETE WITH OTHERS BUT NOT TO BEAT HIM BUT TO IMPROVE BOTH OF US, EVEN, WE CAN COMPETE WITH MULTIPLE PEOPLE TO IMPROVE AS A TEAM.
IT'S COMPETITION IN COOPERATION, NOT COOPERATION IN COMPETITION. ONE IS PEACE, ONE IS BATTLE.
THE REAL GAME IS THE SPIRIT OF COOPERATION. THE RESULT OR CONSEQUENCE. TO PRODUCE A STRONG PEACEFUL CREATIVE SOCIETY. THIS IS THE REAL GAME OR THE BIGGEST GAME. THE GAME OF SURVIVAL.
ALL THE LESSER GAMES THAT USE COMPETITION IS THE LEARNING/TRAINING TO MAKES US STRONGER IN JIWA DAN RAGA.
THERE ARE TWO KINDS OF GAME, GAME WHERE WE WIN WHEN WE ACHIEVE A GOAL AND GAME WHERE WE WIN WHEN WE BEAT OTHERS. IN THE FIRST GAME, WE "COMPETE WITH MYSELF" BY IMPROVING THE TIME OR THE SCORE. IN THE SECOND GAME, WE COMPETE BY SCORING MORE OR HAVING BETTER TIME WITH ANOTHER PERSON.
WE CAN COOPERATE TO COMPETE, BUT COMPETITION IS NOT THE END, BUT ONLY THE MEANS. THE END IS THE COOPERATION. THIS IS SPIRITUALITY.
WHAT WE ARE AFRAID OF IS LEARNING SOMETHING NEW. CHANGE INSTEAD OF STATUS QUO. WHERE CHALLENGE IS HIGHER THAN SKILLS.
STRESS IN GAMES IS DIFFERENT THAN GAMES IN STRESS
THE FIRST ONE IS NATURAL, THE SECOND ONE IS FAKE
AS IN DIFFERENCE BETWEEN PLAYING AND FIGHTING
GAMES ARE COOPERATION WHERE STRESS IS COMPETITION
TRAINING THE PHYSICAL SELF AND THE COMPLEXES
CHANGING ACTIVITIES OR ENVIRONMENT THAT LIFE IS PLEASANT
LETTING NATURAL SYSTEM FLOW RATHER THAN MANIPULATING THEM TO GAIN PLEASURE
IF YOU FEEL PAIN AND THERE IS NO PHYSICAL CAUSE, THAT MEANS YOU ARE LOSING GAMES.
PLAY GAMES BUT DON'T CHEAT
OLAH RAGA ATAU OLAH JIWA
LIFE IS A GAME, GAMES ARE LIKE LIFE
WHY PLAY SIMULATED LIFE, IF YOU CAN PLAY REAL LIFE?
IN REAL LIFE, THE ANTE IS MUCH HIGHER
THERE ARE CHEATERS IN LIFE
USE SIMULATED GAMES TO TRAIN AND LEARN, OLAH RAGA DAN OLAH JIWA
EXERCISE AND LEARNING
PLAYERS WHO CAN PLAY WITH REAL LIFE DON'T NEED TO PLAY WITH SIMULATED GAMES
PLAYERS WHO CAN PLAY WITH REAL PEOPLE DON'T NEED TO PLAY WITH DOLLS AND TOYS
DON'T BREAK RULES AND DON'T CHEAT
CHEATING IS DENYING BREAKING THE RULES
TO PLAY A GAME, YOU NEED SKILLS AND RULES
AND YOU NEED CREATIVITY TO PLAY THE GAMES
FILL YOUR LIFE WITH GAMES, BUT PICK GAMES THAT PREPARE YOU FOR REAL LIFE
PLAYING AND GAMES ARE NOT RECREATION OR ENTERTAINMENT OR RELIEF FROM LIFE
MAKE YOUR LIFE AS PLAYING, GAMES, RECREATION OR ENTERTAINMENT.
PLAY GAMES THAT HELPS YOU NOT HURT YOU
FOLLOW THE RULES OR PLAY GAMES WITH CONSENT (IMPLIED OR EXPLICIT)
SINGLE PLAYER, TWO PLAYERS, OR MULTI PLAYERS
CHANGE MINDSET OR ATTITUDE ABOUT IT. CHANGE YOUR METAPHOR.
WHAT IS THE REAL GAME? IS LIFE ALL ABOUT LEARNING AND TRAINING?
THE REAL GAME IS LIVING INDEPENDENTLY, RAISING FAMILY, WORKING, SOCIALIZING.
UNLIKE COMPETITIVE GAME, THERE IS THIN LINE BETWEEN REAL GAME AND TRAINING. REAL GAME IS TRAINING, TRAINING IS THE REAL GAME. EITHER, WE ALWAYS PLAY REAL GAMES OR WE ARE ALWAYS LEARNING OR TRAINING. IN REAL LIFE, THERE IS NO SCORE TO KEEP, NO END OF REGULATION OR GAME, NO RACE TO KNOW IF WE WIN OR NOT. IT'S A GAME WHERE EVERYBODY CAN WIN. IT IS MORE LIKE EXERCISE WHERE WE WANT TO BE HEALTHY OURSELVES WITHOUT COMPETING WITH OTHERS. WE ARE ON THE SAME TEAM.
WE WILL MAKE MISTAKES, FALLS, LOSE MORE THAN WE WOULD WIN BEFORE WE CAN WALK.
IN A WAY, WE CAN COMPETE WITH OURSELVES TO IMPROVE OURSELVES, WE CAN COMPETE WITH OTHERS BUT NOT TO BEAT HIM BUT TO IMPROVE BOTH OF US, EVEN, WE CAN COMPETE WITH MULTIPLE PEOPLE TO IMPROVE AS A TEAM.
IT'S COMPETITION IN COOPERATION, NOT COOPERATION IN COMPETITION. ONE IS PEACE, ONE IS BATTLE.
THE REAL GAME IS THE SPIRIT OF COOPERATION. THE RESULT OR CONSEQUENCE. TO PRODUCE A STRONG PEACEFUL CREATIVE SOCIETY. THIS IS THE REAL GAME OR THE BIGGEST GAME. THE GAME OF SURVIVAL.
ALL THE LESSER GAMES THAT USE COMPETITION IS THE LEARNING/TRAINING TO MAKES US STRONGER IN JIWA DAN RAGA.
THERE ARE TWO KINDS OF GAME, GAME WHERE WE WIN WHEN WE ACHIEVE A GOAL AND GAME WHERE WE WIN WHEN WE BEAT OTHERS. IN THE FIRST GAME, WE "COMPETE WITH MYSELF" BY IMPROVING THE TIME OR THE SCORE. IN THE SECOND GAME, WE COMPETE BY SCORING MORE OR HAVING BETTER TIME WITH ANOTHER PERSON.
WE CAN COOPERATE TO COMPETE, BUT COMPETITION IS NOT THE END, BUT ONLY THE MEANS. THE END IS THE COOPERATION. THIS IS SPIRITUALITY.
WHAT WE ARE AFRAID OF IS LEARNING SOMETHING NEW. CHANGE INSTEAD OF STATUS QUO. WHERE CHALLENGE IS HIGHER THAN SKILLS.
STRESS IN GAMES IS DIFFERENT THAN GAMES IN STRESS
THE FIRST ONE IS NATURAL, THE SECOND ONE IS FAKE
AS IN DIFFERENCE BETWEEN PLAYING AND FIGHTING
GAMES ARE COOPERATION WHERE STRESS IS COMPETITION
Friday, August 3, 2012
ENGLISH
BABY I LOVE YOU
I LOVE YOU YOU LOVE ME WE ARE HAPPY FAMILY (I O U U O E E AA A E AA A E)
STRESS ONE SYLLABLE
I LOVE YOU YOU LOVE ME WE ARE HAPPY FAMILY (I O U U O E E AA A E AA A E)
STRESS ONE SYLLABLE
MYSELF MAGIC
MYSELF IS A REFLEXIVE PRONOUN. ONLY USED WHEN DESCRIBING THAT A PERSON CAN DO SOMETHING TO HIMSELF. SO IT'S NOT I OR ME, BUT MYSELF. MYSELF BECOMES MY SELF.
LIKE MAGIC, WE DON'T GET FOOLED WHEN WE KNOW. WE DON'T GET FOOLED BY PHENOMENON WHEN WE KNOW. WE CREATE THE STORY BASED ON WHAT WE SEE. WE CREATE A DIFFERENT STORY WHEN WE KNOW. MAGIC IS DEFYING NATURAL LAWS OR LOGIC. BECAUSE WE DON'T KNOW WHAT IS BEHIND THE SCENE OR HIDDEN. COMPUTER VIRUS ALSO HIDES IN THE COMPUTERS. WHAT IS HIDDEN IS HARD TO FIX.
LIFE IS ALONE. WE MEET STRANGERS WHOM WE RARELY MEET IN LIFE. EVEN FRIENDS AND FAMILY ARE MET RARELY. WE CREATE THE STORY AND WE THINK WE CALL IT KNOWLEDGE. WE ACTUALLY DON'T KNOW OTHER PEOPLE'S LIFE OR ANYTHING BEYOND OUR SENSES OR KNOWLEDGE. WE ONLY CREATE STORY FROM OUR KNOWLEDGE AND USING LOGIC TO NARRATE THE STORY. WE USE RULE OF THUMB AND ABSTRACTION OR TEMPLATE TO NAVIGATE IN LIFE. JUST AS WE THINK WE KNOW A HOUSE WE THINK WE KNOW INDIVIDUAL HOUSES.
EACH PERSON OR THINGS HAS ITS OWN LIFE OR STORY. LET'S CALL THIS BIOGRAPHICAL. WE ALSO HAS "A HOUSE" AS A SYMBOL. "SOMEONE'S HOUSE" IS CONCRETE. "A HOUSE" IS ABSTRACT. WE MOSTLY DON'T TOUCH THE CONCRETE, WE PROJECT THE ABSTRACT TO THE CONCRETE.
WE CAN ONLY TOUCH THE CONCRETE WITH OUR SENSES IN THE PRESENT. MOSTLY, WE INFER ABOUT THE PRESENCE OF AN OBJECT ABSTRACTLY AND EVEN MAKE JUDGEMENT ABOUT IT. WE USE LOGIC TO PREDICT ABOUT ITS BEHAVIOR.
WHAT IS CONCRETE IS BEHIND THE SCENE AND THAT IS THE FABRIC OF LIFE. LIKE A MOVIE OR VIDEO GAMES, WE JUST WANT TO BE ENTERTAINMENT AND DON'T WANT TO KNOW THE TRUTH.
TO KNOW WHAT IS BEHIND THE SCENE IS WISDOM. WORDS CAN ONLY GIVE DIRECTION. BUT WORDS CAN'T DESCRIBE CONCRETENESS OR WHAT IS BEHIND THE SCENE. BECAUSE WORDS IS CONCRETE IN ITSELF BUT IS ABSTRACT WHEN POINTING TO SOMETHING ELSE.
LET GO OF ATTACHMENT TO PEOPLE OR ALL THINGS THAT YOU BELIEVE. THEY ARE ILLUSION. THEY ARE SYMBOLS. THEY ARE NOT REAL OR CONCRETE. WHAT IS CONCRETE IS BEHIND THE SCENE. FIND OUT WHAT THAT IS. WE LL FIND OUT THAT NATURAL WORLD IS FILLED WITH HIDDEN WORLD AND SOCIAL WORLD IS FILLED WITH DECEIT. EVERYTHING IS WHERE THEY ARE SUPPOSED TO BE AT ALL TIMES.
EVERYONE OR EVERYTHING HAS ITS OWN STORY. NO ONE HAS THE SAME STORY. SYMBOLS HAS THEORY. THEORY IS THE SAME STORIES. WE THEORIZE ABOUT OBJECTS AND PREDICTS BEHAVIOR. STORIES ARE BEHIND THE SCENE.
LIKE MAGIC, WE DON'T GET FOOLED WHEN WE KNOW. WE DON'T GET FOOLED BY PHENOMENON WHEN WE KNOW. WE CREATE THE STORY BASED ON WHAT WE SEE. WE CREATE A DIFFERENT STORY WHEN WE KNOW. MAGIC IS DEFYING NATURAL LAWS OR LOGIC. BECAUSE WE DON'T KNOW WHAT IS BEHIND THE SCENE OR HIDDEN. COMPUTER VIRUS ALSO HIDES IN THE COMPUTERS. WHAT IS HIDDEN IS HARD TO FIX.
LIFE IS ALONE. WE MEET STRANGERS WHOM WE RARELY MEET IN LIFE. EVEN FRIENDS AND FAMILY ARE MET RARELY. WE CREATE THE STORY AND WE THINK WE CALL IT KNOWLEDGE. WE ACTUALLY DON'T KNOW OTHER PEOPLE'S LIFE OR ANYTHING BEYOND OUR SENSES OR KNOWLEDGE. WE ONLY CREATE STORY FROM OUR KNOWLEDGE AND USING LOGIC TO NARRATE THE STORY. WE USE RULE OF THUMB AND ABSTRACTION OR TEMPLATE TO NAVIGATE IN LIFE. JUST AS WE THINK WE KNOW A HOUSE WE THINK WE KNOW INDIVIDUAL HOUSES.
EACH PERSON OR THINGS HAS ITS OWN LIFE OR STORY. LET'S CALL THIS BIOGRAPHICAL. WE ALSO HAS "A HOUSE" AS A SYMBOL. "SOMEONE'S HOUSE" IS CONCRETE. "A HOUSE" IS ABSTRACT. WE MOSTLY DON'T TOUCH THE CONCRETE, WE PROJECT THE ABSTRACT TO THE CONCRETE.
WE CAN ONLY TOUCH THE CONCRETE WITH OUR SENSES IN THE PRESENT. MOSTLY, WE INFER ABOUT THE PRESENCE OF AN OBJECT ABSTRACTLY AND EVEN MAKE JUDGEMENT ABOUT IT. WE USE LOGIC TO PREDICT ABOUT ITS BEHAVIOR.
WHAT IS CONCRETE IS BEHIND THE SCENE AND THAT IS THE FABRIC OF LIFE. LIKE A MOVIE OR VIDEO GAMES, WE JUST WANT TO BE ENTERTAINMENT AND DON'T WANT TO KNOW THE TRUTH.
TO KNOW WHAT IS BEHIND THE SCENE IS WISDOM. WORDS CAN ONLY GIVE DIRECTION. BUT WORDS CAN'T DESCRIBE CONCRETENESS OR WHAT IS BEHIND THE SCENE. BECAUSE WORDS IS CONCRETE IN ITSELF BUT IS ABSTRACT WHEN POINTING TO SOMETHING ELSE.
LET GO OF ATTACHMENT TO PEOPLE OR ALL THINGS THAT YOU BELIEVE. THEY ARE ILLUSION. THEY ARE SYMBOLS. THEY ARE NOT REAL OR CONCRETE. WHAT IS CONCRETE IS BEHIND THE SCENE. FIND OUT WHAT THAT IS. WE LL FIND OUT THAT NATURAL WORLD IS FILLED WITH HIDDEN WORLD AND SOCIAL WORLD IS FILLED WITH DECEIT. EVERYTHING IS WHERE THEY ARE SUPPOSED TO BE AT ALL TIMES.
EVERYONE OR EVERYTHING HAS ITS OWN STORY. NO ONE HAS THE SAME STORY. SYMBOLS HAS THEORY. THEORY IS THE SAME STORIES. WE THEORIZE ABOUT OBJECTS AND PREDICTS BEHAVIOR. STORIES ARE BEHIND THE SCENE.
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