to love or be loved

there may be a big lie being told around in the world that the most important thing is to love
that we are born to love
that we love others
based on our needs, our social need that we are looking for is to be accepted, to be loved
the sense of being love is like our social food
this sense is the one that feels good
 and being disliked by others is like a spoiled meat

so, what is this business that we love others?
for some it's only in speech or promise
for some it's in action
is it a bait to get the returned love?
a social manipulation?
I love you if you love me?
reciprocical law: you need my love just like I need your love
the food of relationship

what is natural is to be loved, to love is nurtural
we love to be loved
even in parenting love, don't we love our children to their love back?
imagine, loving a child that eternally hate you?
why do you feel bad? because you are not getting a love back?

this is how we are
we ask from the world to give us what we need
we are able to give to exchange for what we need
the giving is the means, the need is the end
physical, safety, social, etc...