LEARNING FROM THE PAST

WE ALWAYS LEARN FROM THE PAST
PEOPLE ADVICE US TO LEARN FROM THE PAST
HOWEVER, SOME PEOPLE REFUSE TO TALK ABOUT THE PAST
WHEN A PERSON REFUSE TO TALK ABOUT THE PAST, HE STILL DENIES THE PAST
HE HAS NOT LEARNED FROM THE PAST
WHEN THE PAST HAS BEEN LEARNED, IT IS FORGOTTEN, IT IS LET GO
IT NATURALLY STOP BEING TALKED ABOUT

IN COMMUNICATION THERE ARE 4 POSSIBILITIES:
1. A HAS NOT LEARNED FROM THE PAST, B TALKED ABOUT THE PAST
2. A HAS NOT LEARNED FROM THE PAST, B STOPPED TALKING ABOUT THE PAST
3. A HAS LEARNED FROM THE PAST, B STOPPED TALKING ABOUT THE PAST
4. A HAS LEARNED FROM THE PAST, B TALKED ABOUT THE PAST

1 AND 3 IS HEALTHY AND NATURAL, 2 AND 4 IS DYSFUNCTIONAL IN RELATIONSHIP
COMMUNICATION IS NOT CONVEYING THE TRUTH ABOUT REALITY
COMMUNICATION IS CONVEYING ONE'S SUBJECTIVE OPINION ABOUT OBJECTS IN ENVIRONMENT
COMMUNICATION IS SUBJECTIVE, COMMUNICATING ONE'S SUBJECTIVE VIEW FROM HIS PAST KNOWLEDGE. MOST COMMUNICATION IS INFERENCE AND JUDGEMENT.
WE MAY TALK ABOUT THE SAME OBJECT/TOPIC, BUT WE WILL TALK ABOUT DIFFERENT EXPERIENCE ABOUT THE TOPIC, PERSONAL EXPERIENCE, MEANING OF THE TOPIC. BECAUSE COMMUNICATION IS SUBJECTIVE.

WE REPORT HAPPENING IN OUR NERVOUS SYSTEM, OTHER THAN THINGS WE SENSE/SEE, WE ALSO REPORT PREDICTION, INFERENCE/GUESSES.

COMMUNICATION IS MEASURED FROM THE ABILITY TO MAINTAIN THE SAME TOPIC, WHICH IS NORMAL STANDARD, TO THE ABILITY TO MAINTAIN THE SAME STORY ABOUT THE TOPIC. TOPIC IS NOT OBJECT. TOPIC IS OBJECT OF COMMUNICATION. ABNORMALITY IS WHEN THE INABILITY TO MAINTAIN LOGIC OF STORY.

WHEN TWO PEOPLE COMMUNICATE, THEY BRING THEIR OWN STORY.