HOSTILITY

HOSTILITY IS A SIGN OF LACK OF TRUST, ACT IN AND OUT
STRESS IS HOSTILITY, HOSTILITY TOWARD SELF
HOSTILITY HAS MANY NAME, FEAR, SHAME, EVEN SADNESS
THOSE EMOTION ARE REACTION TOWARD HOSTILITY THAT WE DIRECT TO SELF

WHAT WE THINK OR SAY IS WORDS OR THOUGHTS NOT EVENTS OR TERRITORY BUT PROMISE
WHAT A PERSON SAY I AM THIS PERSON, HE IS NOT DESCRIBING SELF, HE IS SAYING WHAT HE WANTS TO BE
PROMISE TO HURT IS A THREAT OR HOSTILITY.

HOSTILITY OR FRUSTRATION IS A WAY TO HIDE OUR HANDICAP/DISABILITY
OUR FEAR OF LOSING CONTROL OR POWER OR TO BE TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF BY OTHERS
IF WE DON'T TRY TO HIDE ANYTHING WE DON'T GET HOSTILE
BUT WE WE DON'T KNOW BUT WE ARE EXPECTED TO KNOW, WE GET DEFENSIVE
WE BLAME OTHERS OR SELF WHEN WE DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO BUT WE ARE EXPECTED TO KNOW
A BABY GET FRUSTRATED NOT ONLY BY LACK OF FOOD, BUT ALSO BECAUSE HE DOESN'T KNOW HOW TO GET IT.
SO, IF WE TRY TO HIDE THAT OUR SKILLS IS LOWER THAN CHALLENGE, WE ARE SHAMEFUL
WE PRETEND THAT THE CHALLENGE IS LOWER THAN OUR SKILLS
BUT IF WE ARE EXPECTED AND ACCEPTED TO HAVE OUR SKILLS LOWER THAN CHALLENGE, WE ARE OKAY
TRUST IS A SKILLS. WHEN WE HAVE LOWER SKILLS THAN CHALLENGE WE HAVE LOW TRUST.