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FORGET - TO GET WITHOUT
FORGIVE - TO GIVE WITHOUT/CANCEL
FORSAKE - TO SAKE WITHOUT

A STUPID WILL NEITHER FORGIVE NOR FORGET, A NAIVE ONE WILL BOTH FORGIVE AND FORGET, BUT A WISE ONE WILL FORGIVE BUT NOT FORGET

FORGETTING IS A NATURAL REACTION WHEN INFORMATION IS UNABLE TO BE RECALLED. FORGIVING IS NOT A NATURAL REACTION AND REQUIRE A CONSCIOUS DECISION.

FORGETTING IS AMNESIA. FOOL ME ONCE SHAME ON YOU, FOOL ME TWICE SHAME ON ME.

WHEN WE GET VIOLATED, THERE IS NATURAL REACTION AND FURTHER ACTION. WE SHOULD NEVER FORGET THE NATURAL REACTION, BUT WE FORGIVE TO STOP FURTHER ACTION. FOR EX, WE GET UPSET AND THINKING ABOUT REVENGE OR HURTING THAT PERSON.

WE ARE A NATURAL GET-TER BUT NOT A NATURAL GIVER. WE HAVE TO LEARN TO SHARE OR TO GIVE SOMETHING. LIKE TO FOR-BID, FOR-SAKE (SHAKE) IS TO GIVE SOMETHING OR TO BE GIVEN. WE GIVE SOMETHING TO OURSELVES AND OTHERS, LIKE OBJECT, ALM OR PARDON. TO FORGIVE IS TO GIVE PARDON TO A PERSON'S BEHAVIOR BUT NOT TO FORGET THE BEHAVIORS.

WHAT IS THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN FORGIVING AND SUFFERING? CATHOLIC CHURCH CALL FORGIVENESS REDEMPTIVE SUFFERING. WE DON'T SUFFER OVER SOMETHING THAT WE DON'T FORGET. LIKE NON TRAUMATIC MEMORY. WE SUFFER FOR OUR TRAUMA OR OUR PERSONAL INJURY. FORGIVING IS TO GIVE MEDICINE FOR OUR INJURY.

SO, WE FORGIVE TO HEAL OUR TRAUMA, NOT BY PUTTING UNDER THE RUG OR TRYING TO FORGET OR REPRESS OR CLOSING OUR EYES.

WHAT IS TRAUMA? TRAUMA IS AN ADDITIONAL PAIN AS A RESULT OF INJURY. FOR EXAMPLE, IF I GET CUT YESTERDAY OR LAST WEEK, I CAN STILL FEEL THE PAIN OF THE WOUND TODAY. THE PAIN AND THE WOUND IS DIFFERENT THAN GETTING CUT. GETTING VIOLATED IS DIFFERENT THAN THE PAIN AND SUFFERING WE ENDURE FOR THE VIOLATION.

VIOLATION IS DIFFERENT THAN PUNISHMENT. WE DON'T FORGIVE AND FORGET THE VIOLATION BUT WE CAN FORGIVE THE PUNISHMENT. WE FORGIVE THE CONSEQUENCE.

SO WE DON'T FORGET GETTING CUT, BUT WE FORGIVE THE PAIN AND THE WOUND.

FORGIVING, FORGETTING, FORBIDDING, FORSAKING ALSO ABOUT SOMETHING AFTER IT HAPPEN. IF FORE- IS BEFORE IT HAPPEN, FOR- IS AFTER IT HAPPEN. FOREVER IS FORE-EVER.

FORGETTING IS ABOUT THE ACTION. FORGIVING IS ABOUT THE CONSEQUENCE, THE WOUND AND PUNISHMENT.