OBJECTIVE AND SUBJECTIVE

A PERSON IS INTELLIGENT BOTH EMOTIONALLY AND COGNITIVELY
CUNNING, MANIPULATIVE, AND DECEPTIVE
IF WE LOOK FROM AFAR, WE CAN APPRECIATE HIS GENIUS
HOWEVER, IF WE ARE THE VICTIM WE ARE SUBJECTIVE

THE SUBJECT IS THE FOCUS OF OUR ATTENTION.
WE DON'T FOCUS ON THE ENVIRONMENT ANYMORE
THIS SUBJECT WILL BRING HIS COMPLEX WORLD THAT BECOMES OUR FOCUS
THIS SUBJECT HAS HIS OWN IDEA ABOUT THAT PERSON
WE SEE ONLY THE NEGATIVE

OBJECTIVITY IS THE THIRD PERSON EMPATHY
SUBJECTIVITY IS THE FIRST PERSON EMPATHY

IF A FRIEND HAS PAIN, WE DON'T FEEL THE PAIN, WE CAN BE OBJECTIVE
BUT, IF WE HAVE THE PAIN, WE ONLY THINK OF THE PAIN

WHEN OTHERS ARE IN CRISIS, WE CAN BE OBJECTIVE
BUT WHEN WE ARE IN CRISIS, WE ARE IN THE HEAT OF THE MOMENT, A WHOLE COMPLEX COME OUT

FOR EXAMPLE, WHEN I GET A TICKET, I WORRY ABOUT IT SO MUCH
I AM EMOTIONALLY ATTACHED TO THE CONSEQUENCE
BUT, LOOKING BACK NOW, I ONLY SEE THE EVENT.

THE COMPLEX HAS EMOTION THAT ACTUALLY BLOCK OUR ENERGY
LIKE NERVOUSNESS CAN HINDER A PERFORMANCE

WHEN WE ONLY THINK ABOUT IT, IT IS NOT REAL
BUT WHEN WE ARE IN THE HEAT OF THE MOMENT, IT IS REAL

SO, THE COMPLEX OR SUBJECTIVITY IS EMOTION AND NARROWER FIELD OF VISION
WE ONLY SEE POTENTIAL PROBLEMS THAT CAN HURT US, WE DON'T SEE THE BIG PICTURE.
LIKE IN A GAME, WE ONLY SEE WHAT'S IN FRONT OF US. WE ARE AWARE OF THE PEOPLE,

IN PUBLIC SPEAKING OR MOMENT OF CRISIS, EMOTION CAN TAKE OVER AND GIVE US NARROW PRIMITIVE FIELD OF VISION, BASIC FIELD OF VISION.

WHEN NOT IN CRISIS, WE ARE OBJECTIVE, NO ATTACHMENT AND NO EMOTIONS.
WHEN WE ARE IN CRISIS OR POSITIVE EMOTION, WE ARE SUBJECTIVE, ATTACHMENT AND EMOTIONAL.

FOR EXAMPLE, IN INFATUATION, WE ONLY SEE AN EXAGERATED VERSION OF OUR BELOVED AND THE WORLD IS ONLY FOR TWO OF US. WE CAN'T SLEEP AND OBSESSED WITH THE BELOVED. BECAUSE EMOTION IS READY FOR ACTION.

IN CRISIS, OUR MAP ZOOMED IN TO DETAIL TO A PERSON'S PERSONALITY, FEELING, MIND. ESPECIALLY TO OUR PERSON. IT'S LIKE WE ARE IN INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIP WITH EVERYBODY. LIKE EVERYTHING IS BIG AND MATTER.

OBJECTS BECOME BIG AND MATTER THE CLOSER IT GETS OR THE MORE IMPORTANT IT GETS.

SO, EMOTION MAKE OUR WORLD SMALLER AND SPECIFIC DETAIL, BOTH THE SUBJECT AND OBJECTS. WE MAGNIFY PROBLEMS, OBJECTS AND SUBJECT.

LIKE OUR EMOTION ALLOW US TO ZOOM IN TO A PICTURE TO FIX PARTS OF THE PICTURE.