They are me and I am my worst nightmare
the narcissistic manipulator procastinator and aggressor, when allowed, they will come out, but we don't tickle ourselves
the rejected self, because it takes one to know one
we see myself in others
Don't avoid dealing with this kept traumatic self for fake peacefulness
to clean house is to remove the dirts
From attachment, we get gratified by met needs and frustrated by unmet needs
we keep the gratification and project the frustration to others
Instead of saying "I am frustrated by unmet needs" I blame others
What I think I am is the opposite of what I am, What I think I do is the opposite of what I do
What I am and I do is frustration that I see in other people in order to maintain what I think about myself
When I blame others, I actually blame myself for those characteristics because those characteristics gave me a bad name or is not acceptable
when I don't accept myself, I also don't accept others who shows those characteristic
A passive person is afraid to aggressiveness, an aggressive person is afraid to passivity
A passive person (personality) is afraid of his own aggressiveness (shadow) and an aggressive person is afraid of his own passiveness
A passive person has aggressiveness addressed to oneself and an aggressive person has passiveness addressed to oneself.
A passive person is looking for aggressive others and aggressive person is looking for passive person
The opposite attracts
A passive person is obsessed with aggressiveness and an aggressive person is obsessed with passiveness
A passive person has aggressiveness addressed to oneself and avoid to be aggressive
An aggressive person has passiveness addressed to oneself and avoid to be passive
So an aggressive person is a passive person's worst nightmare and a passive person is an aggressive person's worst nightmare
A passive person tolerate his own aggressiveness to avoid others' aggressiveness
an aggressive person tolerate his own passiveness to avoid others' passiveness
Because we don't tickle ourselves
A passive person will encourage others to be passive and an aggressive person will encourage others to be aggressive
Like, there can't be two same persons in the same room, it's too many.
An aggressive person can't stand passive persons because he is not comfortable with passiveness, and a passive person can't stand an aggressive person because he is afraid of aggressiveness
SO, We are our own worst enemy.
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