HAPPINESS AND RELATIONSHIP

RELATIONSHIP REQUIRE RECIPROCICALITY, EQUALITY.
WHAT I DO AND BEING DONE SHOULD BE EQUAL, HOW I TREAT AND BEING TREATED SHOULD BE EQUAL
WHAT APPLIES FOR ONE SHOULD APPLY ON THE OTHERS
ONE SHOULD NOT FEEL HAPPY AND ANOTHER FEEL UNHAPPY IN RELATIONSHIP
MUTUAL SYMBOLISM/WIN WIN SOLUTION SHOULD ALWAYS BE APPLIED
ONE SHOULD NOT WIN BY MAKING OTHERS LOSE

THE ONLY WAY TO MAKE IT HAPPEN IS BY INTERDEPENDENCE
INDEPENDENT LIVING WITH SHARING CHORES
NOBODY IS AVOIDING RESPONSIBILITY AND DUMPING RESPONSIBILITY ON THE PARTNER
IF ONE PARTNER CAN CHOOSE, BOTH CAN CHOOSE
IF ONE PARTNER HAS TO SACRIFICE, BOTH HAS TO SACRIFICE
IF ONE CAN EXPRESS FEELINGS, BOTH CAN EXPRESS FEELINGS
ONE SHOULD NOT HAVE DIFFERENT RULES FOR HIMSELF AND HIS PARTNER
HAPPINESS CAN ONLY BE CREATED IN FREEDOM
FREEDOM TO LEARN FROM CONSEQUENCES
FREEDOM TO THINK, ACT, AND FEEL
EVERYBODY IS ACCOUNTABLE FOR HIS NEEDS
FAIR SHARE OF SHARED RESPONSIBILITY
IT HAS TO BE A FAIR GAME
GETTING ALONG AND BEING FRIEND WITH ONE ANOTHER
ONE SHOULD NOT BE HAPPY ON THE EXPENSE OF ANOTHER
ONE SHOULD NOT WIN WHERE THE OTHER ONE LOSE

IF BOTH CAN DO ALL THAT, THEY CAN LEARN TO SHARE AND PLAY THE GAME.