ID

ID'S PRINCIPLE IS GRATIFICATION
RELATIONSHIP IS A PROBLEM FOR ID
ID IS A PROBLEM IN RELATIONSHIP
DENIAL OF ID CREATE SELF
DENIAL OF RELATIONSHIP CREATE OTHER-SELVES
RULES ARE STANDARDIZED/AGREEMENT IN RELATIONSHIP
RULES ARE LIKE LANGUAGE IS AN AGREEMENT.

TOO MUCH ID IS ACTIVE, TOO MUCH RELATIONSHIP IS PASSIVE

THREAT ONLY WORKS IF BELIEVED
THREAT PROMISE SAFETY UNDER CONDITIONS AND PROMISE FORCE IF NOT FOLLOWED
IT'S BETTER TO GET IT OVER WITH THE FORCE RATHER THAN WAIT FOR IT
THREATS ARE MOSTLY WORDS.
DEAL WITH THREAT WITH ACCOUNTABILITY, DEMAND FOR ACTION NOW

PAIRING WORDS AND ACTION IS THE STRONGEST
NEXT IS ACTION
WORD WITHOUT ACTION IS THE WEAKEST

A PERSON'S 1ST PERSON VIEW IS "I AM PERFECT, OTHERS ARE FLAWED" (JOHARI WINDOW 2ND AND 3RD WINDOW)

TWO KINDS OF PEOPLE: THOSE WHO FOLLOW RULES AND THOSE WHO TEST RULES (LEARN BY DOING)

CONSCIOUS COMPETENCE IS FILLED WITH PRIDE