our mind is endowed with the ability to create image
not only image, but symbol representing image
the meaning of the symbol is the image it carries
we always think of how others perceive us
we express to create favorable impression
we are puppet controlled by society idea of beauty
Self is only a name in our predisposition
we react strongly to this SELF and MY objects
like body is awared when pained, self comes out when insulted
privately, we don't need concepts or symbols
but socially, we need language to communicate, including communicating to our selves
what is thought but internal conversation, internal message sent to me and by me
I am the sender and receiver where the sender and receiver has different meaning
Language and mind is a social tools to enable to synchronize with others, to adopt standardized rules,
Friday, March 30, 2012
Thursday, March 29, 2012
stimulus response
conditioning is stimulus response
response come after the stimulus
in animal, mostly are instinctual response, that is response to instinct
however, they can be conditioned to response to signal
in human however, most of the stimulus is internal mixed with external
everything is in the mind, everything is thought/imagination, everything is mentalese that we response to
response come after the stimulus
in animal, mostly are instinctual response, that is response to instinct
however, they can be conditioned to response to signal
in human however, most of the stimulus is internal mixed with external
everything is in the mind, everything is thought/imagination, everything is mentalese that we response to
Saturday, March 24, 2012
BLINDNESS
WE ARE BLINDED BY DESIRE LIKE ON FIRE
FALSE ATTACHMENT TO SELF
WHEN BELTS ARE TOO TIGHT, HIPS APPEAR
WHEN FOOT ACHE, FOOT APPEAR
AND WE ARE BLINDED BY THE PAIN
FALSE ATTACHMENT TO SELF
WHEN BELTS ARE TOO TIGHT, HIPS APPEAR
WHEN FOOT ACHE, FOOT APPEAR
AND WE ARE BLINDED BY THE PAIN
Friday, March 23, 2012
PREFERENCE NOT ABSOLUTE
EVERYONE HAS PREFERENCE BUT IT'S NOT ABSOLUTE
EVERYONE HAS DIFFERENT PREFERENCE
EVERYONE HAS DIFFERENT PREFERENCE
Thursday, March 22, 2012
WORDS AND ACTION
THREAT FOR ACTION IS LIKE FEAR OF DANGER OR ANXIETY FOR DEMAND
THREAT IS WORDS FOR POSSIBLE ACTION, WE LEARN TO WARN OURSELVES BEFORE FUTURE DANGER OR TRAGEDY
THREAT IS WORDS FOR POSSIBLE ACTION, WE LEARN TO WARN OURSELVES BEFORE FUTURE DANGER OR TRAGEDY
Wednesday, March 21, 2012
Action and sensation
In free association and game of quick questions, a person can't think before answering the questions
Most likely, he will answer what he really wants
It's great for general inquiry but not great for specific inquiry
it's great for abstract but not concrete, especially calculation
we can say that is's our emotional answers
our real answer
Thinking is like our sensation not action
We pause action when we think, like we pause action when we are sensing the environment
But in thinking, we can create the environment
We can overthink a situation or underthink a situation
People confuse thinking with living, believing the content of his mind rather than his sensation
When people are allowed to think, they can create or manipulate
that's the difference between human and animals
human can pause not only to sense more (animal can do), but to rely on past comment
since human can comment/use language to understand its environments
human can write its own software
so, thinking and sensing is software where body and action is hardware
when people are allowed to think, they can pause their action and to report
when people are allowed to think, it's usually to report something(justify or denying something)
with thinking, we can save our selves when things are bad
but we can also scare our selves
we focus in action, because thinking is like sensing is action/movement and not life itself, we also can focus thinking.
why is it that we know that we are sensing our environment, but we think that what we think about is life? we create not only environment but life itself.
Most likely, he will answer what he really wants
It's great for general inquiry but not great for specific inquiry
it's great for abstract but not concrete, especially calculation
we can say that is's our emotional answers
our real answer
Thinking is like our sensation not action
We pause action when we think, like we pause action when we are sensing the environment
But in thinking, we can create the environment
We can overthink a situation or underthink a situation
People confuse thinking with living, believing the content of his mind rather than his sensation
When people are allowed to think, they can create or manipulate
that's the difference between human and animals
human can pause not only to sense more (animal can do), but to rely on past comment
since human can comment/use language to understand its environments
human can write its own software
so, thinking and sensing is software where body and action is hardware
when people are allowed to think, they can pause their action and to report
when people are allowed to think, it's usually to report something(justify or denying something)
with thinking, we can save our selves when things are bad
but we can also scare our selves
we focus in action, because thinking is like sensing is action/movement and not life itself, we also can focus thinking.
why is it that we know that we are sensing our environment, but we think that what we think about is life? we create not only environment but life itself.
Tuesday, March 20, 2012
unconscious consciousness
you can't control the waves, but you can learn how to surf
Looking back, there are many factors that decide our life
It is as if the idea of manual control is an illusion
What part of our system is manual?
we can only reflect after it happen, we can learn how to surf after getting blown out of the waves so many times
life is pretty automatic and run by itself
we make changes after evaluation of action and goal or action and consequence and make new plan
so our action and emotion occur automatically, our mind comes later to assess profit or loss
Looking back, there are many factors that decide our life
It is as if the idea of manual control is an illusion
What part of our system is manual?
we can only reflect after it happen, we can learn how to surf after getting blown out of the waves so many times
life is pretty automatic and run by itself
we make changes after evaluation of action and goal or action and consequence and make new plan
so our action and emotion occur automatically, our mind comes later to assess profit or loss
Monday, March 19, 2012
ID
ID'S PRINCIPLE IS GRATIFICATION
RELATIONSHIP IS A PROBLEM FOR ID
ID IS A PROBLEM IN RELATIONSHIP
DENIAL OF ID CREATE SELF
DENIAL OF RELATIONSHIP CREATE OTHER-SELVES
RULES ARE STANDARDIZED/AGREEMENT IN RELATIONSHIP
RULES ARE LIKE LANGUAGE IS AN AGREEMENT.
TOO MUCH ID IS ACTIVE, TOO MUCH RELATIONSHIP IS PASSIVE
THREAT ONLY WORKS IF BELIEVED
THREAT PROMISE SAFETY UNDER CONDITIONS AND PROMISE FORCE IF NOT FOLLOWED
IT'S BETTER TO GET IT OVER WITH THE FORCE RATHER THAN WAIT FOR IT
THREATS ARE MOSTLY WORDS.
DEAL WITH THREAT WITH ACCOUNTABILITY, DEMAND FOR ACTION NOW
PAIRING WORDS AND ACTION IS THE STRONGEST
NEXT IS ACTION
WORD WITHOUT ACTION IS THE WEAKEST
A PERSON'S 1ST PERSON VIEW IS "I AM PERFECT, OTHERS ARE FLAWED" (JOHARI WINDOW 2ND AND 3RD WINDOW)
TWO KINDS OF PEOPLE: THOSE WHO FOLLOW RULES AND THOSE WHO TEST RULES (LEARN BY DOING)
CONSCIOUS COMPETENCE IS FILLED WITH PRIDE
RELATIONSHIP IS A PROBLEM FOR ID
ID IS A PROBLEM IN RELATIONSHIP
DENIAL OF ID CREATE SELF
DENIAL OF RELATIONSHIP CREATE OTHER-SELVES
RULES ARE STANDARDIZED/AGREEMENT IN RELATIONSHIP
RULES ARE LIKE LANGUAGE IS AN AGREEMENT.
TOO MUCH ID IS ACTIVE, TOO MUCH RELATIONSHIP IS PASSIVE
THREAT ONLY WORKS IF BELIEVED
THREAT PROMISE SAFETY UNDER CONDITIONS AND PROMISE FORCE IF NOT FOLLOWED
IT'S BETTER TO GET IT OVER WITH THE FORCE RATHER THAN WAIT FOR IT
THREATS ARE MOSTLY WORDS.
DEAL WITH THREAT WITH ACCOUNTABILITY, DEMAND FOR ACTION NOW
PAIRING WORDS AND ACTION IS THE STRONGEST
NEXT IS ACTION
WORD WITHOUT ACTION IS THE WEAKEST
A PERSON'S 1ST PERSON VIEW IS "I AM PERFECT, OTHERS ARE FLAWED" (JOHARI WINDOW 2ND AND 3RD WINDOW)
TWO KINDS OF PEOPLE: THOSE WHO FOLLOW RULES AND THOSE WHO TEST RULES (LEARN BY DOING)
CONSCIOUS COMPETENCE IS FILLED WITH PRIDE
Friday, March 16, 2012
CLASH OF SYSTEMS
EACH OF US HAS OUR OWN SYSTEM
IN RELATIONSHIP, IT'S CLASH OF SYSTEMS
REORGANIZING AND READJUSTING
LEARNING IS REORGANIZING THE SYSTEM
IN RELATIONSHIP, IT'S CLASH OF SYSTEMS
REORGANIZING AND READJUSTING
LEARNING IS REORGANIZING THE SYSTEM
SELF MAINTAINANCE
THERE IS HIGH MAINTENANCE AND LOW MAINTENANCE
SELF MAINTAIN ITSELF THROUGH IT'S WANTS
THE CLEAREST SIGN OF A SELF IS SUFFERING
PRAISE OR HINAAN WILL BRING OUT SELF
IT'S EASY TO MAINTAIN SELF WHEN ALONE
MORE DIFFICULT WITH OTHERS, BECAUSE EACH HAS ITS OWN SELF
SO THERE IS COMPETITION IN THE LIMITED TIME AND SPACE
LOW MAINTENANCE IS SOCIALLY OBEDIENT OR ADAPTABLE AND SHOW SOCIALLY DESIRABILITY.
SELF MAINTAIN ITSELF THROUGH IT'S WANTS
THE CLEAREST SIGN OF A SELF IS SUFFERING
PRAISE OR HINAAN WILL BRING OUT SELF
IT'S EASY TO MAINTAIN SELF WHEN ALONE
MORE DIFFICULT WITH OTHERS, BECAUSE EACH HAS ITS OWN SELF
SO THERE IS COMPETITION IN THE LIMITED TIME AND SPACE
LOW MAINTENANCE IS SOCIALLY OBEDIENT OR ADAPTABLE AND SHOW SOCIALLY DESIRABILITY.
KARMA
EACH PERSON HAS IT'S OWN KARMA
CONSEQUENCES FROM HIS OWN BEHAVIORS
NOBODY CAN HELP OR HURT HIS KARMA
NOBODY CAN SAVE A PERSON FROM IT
NOBODY CAN MAKE WORSE MORE THAN IT'S OWN KARMA
KARMA FROM ILLUSION IS SUFFERING
CONSEQUENCES FROM HIS OWN BEHAVIORS
NOBODY CAN HELP OR HURT HIS KARMA
NOBODY CAN SAVE A PERSON FROM IT
NOBODY CAN MAKE WORSE MORE THAN IT'S OWN KARMA
KARMA FROM ILLUSION IS SUFFERING
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
ALTER EGO
PUBLIC SELF IS USUALLY THE OPPOSITE OF THE PRIVATE SELF
PUBLIC SELF IS THE "WHAT I SAY" OR "CONTENT" OF COGNITION/SPEECH
PRIVATE SELF IS THE "WHAT I DO" IN "DO WHAT I SAY NOT WHAT I DO"
PUBLIC SELF IS USUALLY ACCEPTED, DESIRABLE, OR DEMANDED BY SOCIETY
PRIVATE SELF IS USUALLY LESS DESIRABLE, REJECTED, AND SURPRESSED
THE PUBLIC SELF IS THE SEED OF THE IDEAL SELF OR SELF
THE PRIVATE SELF IS THE SHADOW
WHEN FEAR OR ANXIETY, THE IDEAL SELF USUALLY SHOW UP AND BE JUDGEMENTAL, "HOLIER THAN THOU". IDEAL SELF IS THE ALTER EGO, LIKE SUPERHERO SHOW UP IN THE MOMENT OF CRISIS.
PUBLIC SELF IS THE "WHAT I SAY" OR "CONTENT" OF COGNITION/SPEECH
PRIVATE SELF IS THE "WHAT I DO" IN "DO WHAT I SAY NOT WHAT I DO"
PUBLIC SELF IS USUALLY ACCEPTED, DESIRABLE, OR DEMANDED BY SOCIETY
PRIVATE SELF IS USUALLY LESS DESIRABLE, REJECTED, AND SURPRESSED
THE PUBLIC SELF IS THE SEED OF THE IDEAL SELF OR SELF
THE PRIVATE SELF IS THE SHADOW
WHEN FEAR OR ANXIETY, THE IDEAL SELF USUALLY SHOW UP AND BE JUDGEMENTAL, "HOLIER THAN THOU". IDEAL SELF IS THE ALTER EGO, LIKE SUPERHERO SHOW UP IN THE MOMENT OF CRISIS.
Sunday, March 11, 2012
rainy sunday 3-11-12
WHAT'S THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE PICTURE AND PHOTOGRAPHY?
PHOTOGRAPH IS A RECORDING OF RECEIVED IMAGES AND PICTURE IS A CREATION OF RECORDED IMAGES.
TO CREATE IMAGE REQUIRES TECHNOLOGY
ANIMAL CAN SEND AND RECEIVE WORDS OR SOUND, BUT IMAGE IS A ONE WAY STREET
EVEN THOUGH ANIMAL CAN RECEIVE IMAGE, IT CAN'T SEND IMAGE.
PHOTOGRAPH IS A RECORDING OF RECEIVED IMAGES AND PICTURE IS A CREATION OF RECORDED IMAGES.
TO CREATE IMAGE REQUIRES TECHNOLOGY
ANIMAL CAN SEND AND RECEIVE WORDS OR SOUND, BUT IMAGE IS A ONE WAY STREET
EVEN THOUGH ANIMAL CAN RECEIVE IMAGE, IT CAN'T SEND IMAGE.
Saturday, March 10, 2012
HAPPINESS AND RELATIONSHIP
RELATIONSHIP REQUIRE RECIPROCICALITY, EQUALITY.
WHAT I DO AND BEING DONE SHOULD BE EQUAL, HOW I TREAT AND BEING TREATED SHOULD BE EQUAL
WHAT APPLIES FOR ONE SHOULD APPLY ON THE OTHERS
ONE SHOULD NOT FEEL HAPPY AND ANOTHER FEEL UNHAPPY IN RELATIONSHIP
MUTUAL SYMBOLISM/WIN WIN SOLUTION SHOULD ALWAYS BE APPLIED
ONE SHOULD NOT WIN BY MAKING OTHERS LOSE
THE ONLY WAY TO MAKE IT HAPPEN IS BY INTERDEPENDENCE
INDEPENDENT LIVING WITH SHARING CHORES
NOBODY IS AVOIDING RESPONSIBILITY AND DUMPING RESPONSIBILITY ON THE PARTNER
IF ONE PARTNER CAN CHOOSE, BOTH CAN CHOOSE
IF ONE PARTNER HAS TO SACRIFICE, BOTH HAS TO SACRIFICE
IF ONE CAN EXPRESS FEELINGS, BOTH CAN EXPRESS FEELINGS
ONE SHOULD NOT HAVE DIFFERENT RULES FOR HIMSELF AND HIS PARTNER
HAPPINESS CAN ONLY BE CREATED IN FREEDOM
FREEDOM TO LEARN FROM CONSEQUENCES
FREEDOM TO THINK, ACT, AND FEEL
EVERYBODY IS ACCOUNTABLE FOR HIS NEEDS
FAIR SHARE OF SHARED RESPONSIBILITY
IT HAS TO BE A FAIR GAME
GETTING ALONG AND BEING FRIEND WITH ONE ANOTHER
ONE SHOULD NOT BE HAPPY ON THE EXPENSE OF ANOTHER
ONE SHOULD NOT WIN WHERE THE OTHER ONE LOSE
IF BOTH CAN DO ALL THAT, THEY CAN LEARN TO SHARE AND PLAY THE GAME.
WHAT I DO AND BEING DONE SHOULD BE EQUAL, HOW I TREAT AND BEING TREATED SHOULD BE EQUAL
WHAT APPLIES FOR ONE SHOULD APPLY ON THE OTHERS
ONE SHOULD NOT FEEL HAPPY AND ANOTHER FEEL UNHAPPY IN RELATIONSHIP
MUTUAL SYMBOLISM/WIN WIN SOLUTION SHOULD ALWAYS BE APPLIED
ONE SHOULD NOT WIN BY MAKING OTHERS LOSE
THE ONLY WAY TO MAKE IT HAPPEN IS BY INTERDEPENDENCE
INDEPENDENT LIVING WITH SHARING CHORES
NOBODY IS AVOIDING RESPONSIBILITY AND DUMPING RESPONSIBILITY ON THE PARTNER
IF ONE PARTNER CAN CHOOSE, BOTH CAN CHOOSE
IF ONE PARTNER HAS TO SACRIFICE, BOTH HAS TO SACRIFICE
IF ONE CAN EXPRESS FEELINGS, BOTH CAN EXPRESS FEELINGS
ONE SHOULD NOT HAVE DIFFERENT RULES FOR HIMSELF AND HIS PARTNER
HAPPINESS CAN ONLY BE CREATED IN FREEDOM
FREEDOM TO LEARN FROM CONSEQUENCES
FREEDOM TO THINK, ACT, AND FEEL
EVERYBODY IS ACCOUNTABLE FOR HIS NEEDS
FAIR SHARE OF SHARED RESPONSIBILITY
IT HAS TO BE A FAIR GAME
GETTING ALONG AND BEING FRIEND WITH ONE ANOTHER
ONE SHOULD NOT BE HAPPY ON THE EXPENSE OF ANOTHER
ONE SHOULD NOT WIN WHERE THE OTHER ONE LOSE
IF BOTH CAN DO ALL THAT, THEY CAN LEARN TO SHARE AND PLAY THE GAME.
OBSERVER
COGNITION IS LIKE IMAGINING MAKING A MOVIE
MOV-IE IS RECORDING OF MOVEMENT
MOVIE CAN NOT CREATE HIGH ABSTRACT TERM LIKE JOB, "HOUSE", HOUSEHOLD.
THE VIEWER HAS TO IDENTIFY AND CREATE THOSE TERMS IN THEIR MIND
LIKEWISE WITH COGNITION
IT'S A COLLECTION OF MOVEMENT OF OBJECTS RECORDED BY THE OBSERVER AND BIASED BY THE OBSERVER BECAUSE THE OBSERVER THINK THAT IT'S INSIDE
BUT, THE OBSERVER CAN'T SEE ITSELF
IT'S LIKE THE CAMERA WHO RECORD THE MOVIE THAT CAN THINK THAT IT IS IN THE MOVIE
SO, OTHER THAN RECORDING, THE OBSERVER CREATE ITSELF, LIKE A CAMERA THAT CAN CREATE ITS OWN SELF IN THE MOVIE
THE BIAS IS THAT WE DON'T SEE THIS SELF THAT WE THINK EXIST EVEN THOUGH IT DOESN'T EXIST
WE DON'T HAVE A FULL VIEW, WE ONLY HAVE OUR POINT OF VIEW
BECAUSE THE MOVIE THAT WE SEE IS PART OF THE BIGGER MOVIE AND THAT MOVIE IS PART OF THE BIGGER MOVIE AND WE ARE ONLY AN OBSERVER
THE MOVIE TELLS NOTHING ABOUT THE OBSERVER. THE OBSERVER-ACTOR IS NOT REAL. IF THE OBSERVER ACTOR IS NOT REAL, OTHER ACTORS ARE NOT REAL EITHER, CREATED BY THE OBSERVER.
SO, THE OBSERVER SHOULD NOT IDENTIFY WITH THE MOVIE ESPECIALLY WITH THE OBSERVER-ACTORS, BECAUSE THEY ARE CREATION OF THE OBSERVER. THEY ARE NAME LABELS FOR OBJECTS. OUR KINESTATIC UNDERSTANDING/RECOGNITION/EMOTIONS MAKE THE MOVIE REAL.
SO IT'S NOT WHAT IS THE OBSERVER BUT THAT IS THE OBSERVER. OUR POINT OF VIEW IS ONE OUT OF BILLIONS VIEWS. MORAL AND CULTURAL EXPECTATION ARE STANDARDIZED VIEW THAT WE SHARE.
WE ARE ALL SICK NOT BECAUSE WE DON'T SEE OUR REAL SELF, BUT BECAUSE WE SEE AND RECOGNIZE OUR IDEAL SELF THUS CREATE AND HATE OUR REAL SELF. IDEAL AND REAL ARE BOTH ACTORS IN THE SAME MOVIE. LIKE THE PUNISHER AND THE PUNISHEE ARE ACTORS IN THE SAME MOVIE. TO BE A PUNISHER, THERE HAS TO BE A PUNISHEE.
THE OBSERVER IS NOT TO BE SEEN OR TO BE PIN POINT OR TO BE KNOWN BECAUSE I CAN'T KNOW MYSELF, JUST LIKE EYE CAN'T SEE ITSELF. THE OBSERVER IS TO SEE, HEAR, TOUCH, TASTE, TO LIVE. TO LIVE IS TO GET OUT OF THE CINEMA, TO SEE THE REAL MOUNTAIN RATHER THAN THE MOVIE ABOUT THE MOUNTAIN. REAL LIFE IS HARSH, IT TAKES WORK TO CLIMB THE MOUNTAIN RATHER THAN WATCHING ABOUT THE MOUNTAIN, LIKE IT'S EASIER TO WATCH SPORTS RATHER THAN PARTICIPATE IN SPORTS.
SO, GET UP AND GET OUT.
MOV-IE IS RECORDING OF MOVEMENT
MOVIE CAN NOT CREATE HIGH ABSTRACT TERM LIKE JOB, "HOUSE", HOUSEHOLD.
THE VIEWER HAS TO IDENTIFY AND CREATE THOSE TERMS IN THEIR MIND
LIKEWISE WITH COGNITION
IT'S A COLLECTION OF MOVEMENT OF OBJECTS RECORDED BY THE OBSERVER AND BIASED BY THE OBSERVER BECAUSE THE OBSERVER THINK THAT IT'S INSIDE
BUT, THE OBSERVER CAN'T SEE ITSELF
IT'S LIKE THE CAMERA WHO RECORD THE MOVIE THAT CAN THINK THAT IT IS IN THE MOVIE
SO, OTHER THAN RECORDING, THE OBSERVER CREATE ITSELF, LIKE A CAMERA THAT CAN CREATE ITS OWN SELF IN THE MOVIE
THE BIAS IS THAT WE DON'T SEE THIS SELF THAT WE THINK EXIST EVEN THOUGH IT DOESN'T EXIST
WE DON'T HAVE A FULL VIEW, WE ONLY HAVE OUR POINT OF VIEW
BECAUSE THE MOVIE THAT WE SEE IS PART OF THE BIGGER MOVIE AND THAT MOVIE IS PART OF THE BIGGER MOVIE AND WE ARE ONLY AN OBSERVER
THE MOVIE TELLS NOTHING ABOUT THE OBSERVER. THE OBSERVER-ACTOR IS NOT REAL. IF THE OBSERVER ACTOR IS NOT REAL, OTHER ACTORS ARE NOT REAL EITHER, CREATED BY THE OBSERVER.
SO, THE OBSERVER SHOULD NOT IDENTIFY WITH THE MOVIE ESPECIALLY WITH THE OBSERVER-ACTORS, BECAUSE THEY ARE CREATION OF THE OBSERVER. THEY ARE NAME LABELS FOR OBJECTS. OUR KINESTATIC UNDERSTANDING/RECOGNITION/EMOTIONS MAKE THE MOVIE REAL.
SO IT'S NOT WHAT IS THE OBSERVER BUT THAT IS THE OBSERVER. OUR POINT OF VIEW IS ONE OUT OF BILLIONS VIEWS. MORAL AND CULTURAL EXPECTATION ARE STANDARDIZED VIEW THAT WE SHARE.
WE ARE ALL SICK NOT BECAUSE WE DON'T SEE OUR REAL SELF, BUT BECAUSE WE SEE AND RECOGNIZE OUR IDEAL SELF THUS CREATE AND HATE OUR REAL SELF. IDEAL AND REAL ARE BOTH ACTORS IN THE SAME MOVIE. LIKE THE PUNISHER AND THE PUNISHEE ARE ACTORS IN THE SAME MOVIE. TO BE A PUNISHER, THERE HAS TO BE A PUNISHEE.
THE OBSERVER IS NOT TO BE SEEN OR TO BE PIN POINT OR TO BE KNOWN BECAUSE I CAN'T KNOW MYSELF, JUST LIKE EYE CAN'T SEE ITSELF. THE OBSERVER IS TO SEE, HEAR, TOUCH, TASTE, TO LIVE. TO LIVE IS TO GET OUT OF THE CINEMA, TO SEE THE REAL MOUNTAIN RATHER THAN THE MOVIE ABOUT THE MOUNTAIN. REAL LIFE IS HARSH, IT TAKES WORK TO CLIMB THE MOUNTAIN RATHER THAN WATCHING ABOUT THE MOUNTAIN, LIKE IT'S EASIER TO WATCH SPORTS RATHER THAN PARTICIPATE IN SPORTS.
SO, GET UP AND GET OUT.
Friday, March 9, 2012
memberi dan menerima
KALAU POSITIVE, MENERIMA LEBIH MUDAH DARI MEMBERI
KALAU NEGATIVE, MEMBERI LEBIH MUDAH DARI MENERIMA
MENCELA LEBIH MUDAH DARI DICELA, DIPUJI LEBIH MUDAH DARI DIPUJI
MENGHINA LEBIH MUDAH DARI DIHINA
MENGHUKUM LEBIH MUDAH DARI DIHUKUM
TAPI MENERIMA HADIAH LEBIH MUDAH DARI MEMBERI HADIAH
MENANG LEBIH BAIK DARIPADA KALAH
WE WANT TO WIN BUT WE HATE TO LOSE
WE WANT TO WIN AND OTHERS TO LOSE BUT WE HATE OTHERS TO WIN BECAUSE WE LOSE
IT'S OK FOR US TO ACT TO WIN BUT WHEN OTHERS ACT THE SAME WAY TO WIN, WE HATE IT
IT'S OKAY FOR US TO ACT TO GET WHAT WE WANT, BUT WHEN OTHERS ACT THE SAME WAY TO GET WHAT HE WANTS WE HATE IT ESPECIALLY IF WE HAVE TO SUFER FOR IT
IT HAS SOMETHING TO DO WITH CONTROL AND BEING CONTROLLED
I PREFER TO CONTROL AND BEING CONTROL
IF OTHERS ARE IN CONTROL THAT MEANS I AM NOT IN CONTROL
THIS LACK OF CONTROL IS THE PASSIVE ATTITUDE THAT LEAD TO ANXIETY
DUE TO IGNORANCE IN SELF AND PERMANENCE
I AM AFRAID TO LOSE CONTROL AND ANXIOUS TO HOLD ON TO CONTROL
AFRAID TO LET GO TO TRUST AND BE VULNERABLE
I AM AFRAID TO BE CONTROLLED BECAUSE EVERYBODY IS SELFISH AND LIKE TO BE IN CONTROL
SO, IT'S A STRUGGLE OF CONTROL AND COMPETITION
I SEE OTHERS AS MY SELF AND MY SELF AS OTHERS
I SPLIT MY SELF AND OTHERS.
IT'S OK IF I WIN, BUT IT'S NOT OK IF THE OTHERS WIN
BUT MY SELF AND OTHERS ARE THE SAME, SELFISH AND WANT TO CONTROL THEIR OWN LIFE
THE SAME REASON WHY WE DON'T TICKLE OURSELVES
BECAUSE WE HAVE DIFFERENT WIRE REGARDING OUR SELVES AND OTHERS
WE HAVE BETTER SUBJECTIVE VIEW OF OUR SELVES THAN OTHERS
OUR SELVES IS SUBJECTIVELY BETTER THAN OTHERS
OTHERS ARE WE PLACE OUR SELVES ON OTHERS (INCOMPLETE AND APPEARANCE)
WE DON'T HAVE A COMPLETE PICTURE
AT THE SAME TIME, WE ALSO COMPARE OUR SELVES TO OTHERS (INCOMPLETE AND APPEARANCE)
LIKE PLAYING A GAME OR SELLING A CAR
OTHERS ARE JUST LIKE ME. I AM FINE WITH ME BUT NOT FINE WITH OTHERS. WHY?
BECAUSE I AM ONE WITH ME BUT NOT ONE WITH OTHERS
OTHERS ARE DIFFERENT AND OTHERS HAVE THEIR OWN ONENESS
LIKE I DON'T MIND HITTING MYSELF BUT NOT WHEN HIT BY OTHERS
I AM FINE IN MY WORLD, BUT OTHERS ARE NOT FINE IN MY WORLD
OTHERS ARE FINE IN THEIR OWN WORLD
I CAN'T ASK OTHERS TO LIVE IN MY WORLD
I HAVE DIFFERENT VIEW OF MYSELF AND OTHERS
I AM FINE WITH MY SMOKING AND OTHER BAD BEHAVIORS
BUT I AM TROUBLED BY OTHERS BAD BEHAVIORS
KARNA MEREKA MERUGIKAN AKU
TAPI MY BAD BEHAVIORS TIDAK MERUGIKAN AKU, MUNGKIN MERUGIKAN ORANG LAIN.
MY BAD BEHAVIORS MENGUNTUNGKAN AKU. I CREATE IDEAL SELF
WE LAUGH AT OTHERS, BUT EMBARRASED BY SAME BEHAVIORS
WE COMPARE OTHERS BEHAVIOR TO IDEAL STANDARD, MY IDEAL SELF
BUT WE DON'T COMPARE OUR BEHAVIOR TO IDEAL STANDARD BECAUSE WE BELIEVE WE ARE IDEAL STANDARD
WE EXPECT OTHERS TO IDEAL STANDARD OR SOCIAL DESIRABLE OR CIVILIZED OR NICE NOT TO HURT US TO OUR STANDARD.
I ONLY SEE THE IDEAL ME IN MY MIND, I AM THE IDEAL, AND SEE OTHERS AS LESS THAN IDEAL. I ONLY SEE A GOOD ME, I AM GOOD AND EVERYBODY ELSE IS BAD.
NARCISSISTIC MASK.
WHEN I AM COMFORTABLE AND SATISFIED, I USE THE 3RD PERSON VIEW ON OTHERS AND IS VERY JUDGEMENTAL, LIKE WHEN MY FRIEND HAS TO TAKE A TEST AND I DON'T FEEL STRESSFUL, BUT IF I HAVE TO TAKE THE TEST I FEEL THE STRESS. BUT I DON'T ADMIT IT AND BLAME OTHERS. BECAUSE I AM NOT AS WEAK AS OTHERS. WHEN OTHERS TAKE THE TEST, THEY ARE STRESSFUL AND IT'S THEIR FAULT. BUT WHEN I TAKE THE TEST, THE TEST IS THE PROBLEM.
WHEN OTHERS SUFFER, WE ATTRIBUTE IT TO THE PERSON. WHEN WE SUFFER, WE JUSTIFY AND ATTRIBUTE IT TO FACTORS INSIDE AND OUTSIDE OF OUR SELF AND IT'S NOT OUR FAULT. JUSTIFICATION.
WHEN OTHERS SUFFER, BECAUSE THE WAY HE IS OR WHAT HE DOES. WHEN I SUFFER, IT'S BECAUSE SOMEONE ELSE'S FAULT OR OTHER EXTERNAL FACTORS (JUSTIFICATION).
IGNORANT DOESN'T KNOW THIS, THEY ASK FOR HAPPINESS BUT GIVE SUFFERING
TO BE ENTERTAINED IS EASIER THAN TO ENTERTAINED
TO BE HELPED IS EASIER THAN TO HELP
THIS IS THE HABIT OF SELF. SELF DOESN'T TEAMWORK
EACH PERSON WANTS THEIR OWN HAPPINESS OR FAME OR POWER
BUT PUTTING DOWN OTHERS HAPPINESS OR FAME OR POWER
FOR TEAMWORK TO WORK, EACH PERSON HAS TO PUT OTHERS HAPPINESS FIRST
KALAU NEGATIVE, MEMBERI LEBIH MUDAH DARI MENERIMA
MENCELA LEBIH MUDAH DARI DICELA, DIPUJI LEBIH MUDAH DARI DIPUJI
MENGHINA LEBIH MUDAH DARI DIHINA
MENGHUKUM LEBIH MUDAH DARI DIHUKUM
TAPI MENERIMA HADIAH LEBIH MUDAH DARI MEMBERI HADIAH
MENANG LEBIH BAIK DARIPADA KALAH
WE WANT TO WIN BUT WE HATE TO LOSE
WE WANT TO WIN AND OTHERS TO LOSE BUT WE HATE OTHERS TO WIN BECAUSE WE LOSE
IT'S OK FOR US TO ACT TO WIN BUT WHEN OTHERS ACT THE SAME WAY TO WIN, WE HATE IT
IT'S OKAY FOR US TO ACT TO GET WHAT WE WANT, BUT WHEN OTHERS ACT THE SAME WAY TO GET WHAT HE WANTS WE HATE IT ESPECIALLY IF WE HAVE TO SUFER FOR IT
IT HAS SOMETHING TO DO WITH CONTROL AND BEING CONTROLLED
I PREFER TO CONTROL AND BEING CONTROL
IF OTHERS ARE IN CONTROL THAT MEANS I AM NOT IN CONTROL
THIS LACK OF CONTROL IS THE PASSIVE ATTITUDE THAT LEAD TO ANXIETY
DUE TO IGNORANCE IN SELF AND PERMANENCE
I AM AFRAID TO LOSE CONTROL AND ANXIOUS TO HOLD ON TO CONTROL
AFRAID TO LET GO TO TRUST AND BE VULNERABLE
I AM AFRAID TO BE CONTROLLED BECAUSE EVERYBODY IS SELFISH AND LIKE TO BE IN CONTROL
SO, IT'S A STRUGGLE OF CONTROL AND COMPETITION
I SEE OTHERS AS MY SELF AND MY SELF AS OTHERS
I SPLIT MY SELF AND OTHERS.
IT'S OK IF I WIN, BUT IT'S NOT OK IF THE OTHERS WIN
BUT MY SELF AND OTHERS ARE THE SAME, SELFISH AND WANT TO CONTROL THEIR OWN LIFE
THE SAME REASON WHY WE DON'T TICKLE OURSELVES
BECAUSE WE HAVE DIFFERENT WIRE REGARDING OUR SELVES AND OTHERS
WE HAVE BETTER SUBJECTIVE VIEW OF OUR SELVES THAN OTHERS
OUR SELVES IS SUBJECTIVELY BETTER THAN OTHERS
OTHERS ARE WE PLACE OUR SELVES ON OTHERS (INCOMPLETE AND APPEARANCE)
WE DON'T HAVE A COMPLETE PICTURE
AT THE SAME TIME, WE ALSO COMPARE OUR SELVES TO OTHERS (INCOMPLETE AND APPEARANCE)
LIKE PLAYING A GAME OR SELLING A CAR
OTHERS ARE JUST LIKE ME. I AM FINE WITH ME BUT NOT FINE WITH OTHERS. WHY?
BECAUSE I AM ONE WITH ME BUT NOT ONE WITH OTHERS
OTHERS ARE DIFFERENT AND OTHERS HAVE THEIR OWN ONENESS
LIKE I DON'T MIND HITTING MYSELF BUT NOT WHEN HIT BY OTHERS
I AM FINE IN MY WORLD, BUT OTHERS ARE NOT FINE IN MY WORLD
OTHERS ARE FINE IN THEIR OWN WORLD
I CAN'T ASK OTHERS TO LIVE IN MY WORLD
I HAVE DIFFERENT VIEW OF MYSELF AND OTHERS
I AM FINE WITH MY SMOKING AND OTHER BAD BEHAVIORS
BUT I AM TROUBLED BY OTHERS BAD BEHAVIORS
KARNA MEREKA MERUGIKAN AKU
TAPI MY BAD BEHAVIORS TIDAK MERUGIKAN AKU, MUNGKIN MERUGIKAN ORANG LAIN.
MY BAD BEHAVIORS MENGUNTUNGKAN AKU. I CREATE IDEAL SELF
WE LAUGH AT OTHERS, BUT EMBARRASED BY SAME BEHAVIORS
WE COMPARE OTHERS BEHAVIOR TO IDEAL STANDARD, MY IDEAL SELF
BUT WE DON'T COMPARE OUR BEHAVIOR TO IDEAL STANDARD BECAUSE WE BELIEVE WE ARE IDEAL STANDARD
WE EXPECT OTHERS TO IDEAL STANDARD OR SOCIAL DESIRABLE OR CIVILIZED OR NICE NOT TO HURT US TO OUR STANDARD.
I ONLY SEE THE IDEAL ME IN MY MIND, I AM THE IDEAL, AND SEE OTHERS AS LESS THAN IDEAL. I ONLY SEE A GOOD ME, I AM GOOD AND EVERYBODY ELSE IS BAD.
NARCISSISTIC MASK.
WHEN I AM COMFORTABLE AND SATISFIED, I USE THE 3RD PERSON VIEW ON OTHERS AND IS VERY JUDGEMENTAL, LIKE WHEN MY FRIEND HAS TO TAKE A TEST AND I DON'T FEEL STRESSFUL, BUT IF I HAVE TO TAKE THE TEST I FEEL THE STRESS. BUT I DON'T ADMIT IT AND BLAME OTHERS. BECAUSE I AM NOT AS WEAK AS OTHERS. WHEN OTHERS TAKE THE TEST, THEY ARE STRESSFUL AND IT'S THEIR FAULT. BUT WHEN I TAKE THE TEST, THE TEST IS THE PROBLEM.
WHEN OTHERS SUFFER, WE ATTRIBUTE IT TO THE PERSON. WHEN WE SUFFER, WE JUSTIFY AND ATTRIBUTE IT TO FACTORS INSIDE AND OUTSIDE OF OUR SELF AND IT'S NOT OUR FAULT. JUSTIFICATION.
WHEN OTHERS SUFFER, BECAUSE THE WAY HE IS OR WHAT HE DOES. WHEN I SUFFER, IT'S BECAUSE SOMEONE ELSE'S FAULT OR OTHER EXTERNAL FACTORS (JUSTIFICATION).
IGNORANT DOESN'T KNOW THIS, THEY ASK FOR HAPPINESS BUT GIVE SUFFERING
TO BE ENTERTAINED IS EASIER THAN TO ENTERTAINED
TO BE HELPED IS EASIER THAN TO HELP
THIS IS THE HABIT OF SELF. SELF DOESN'T TEAMWORK
EACH PERSON WANTS THEIR OWN HAPPINESS OR FAME OR POWER
BUT PUTTING DOWN OTHERS HAPPINESS OR FAME OR POWER
FOR TEAMWORK TO WORK, EACH PERSON HAS TO PUT OTHERS HAPPINESS FIRST
Thursday, March 8, 2012
KOSONG
KOSONG ITU TIDAK BAKA, TIDAK MEMUASKAN, DAN KOSONG DIDALAMNYA. BUKAN PRASANGKA DAN PRADUGA. MUSIK DARI KOSONG SERULING, TULISAN DARI KOSONG HALAMAN, TERANG KARNA KEKOSONGAN JENDELA, 4 DINDING KOSONG.
KALO SEPATU COCOK, KAKI DILUPAKAN
KALO IKAT PINGGANG COCOK, PINGGANG DILUPAKAN
KALO SEMUA SELARAS, AKU DILUPAKAN (ON THE SAME PAGE)
PERBUATAN SESEORANG MENUNJUKAN APA YANG MAU DITAFSIRKAN OLEH PENGAMATNYA, PEMUKUL DAN YANG DIPUKUL.
MEMUAT DAN DIMUAT, MENERTAWAKAN DAN DITERTAWAKAN, MEMBICARAKAN DAN DIBICARAKAN, MEMINJAM DAN DIPINJAM.
IN DIRECT EXPERIENCE, THERE IS NO DANGER, JUST PERCEPTION AND KNOWLEDGE
NO UNDERSTANDING
THERE IS NO DANGER, NO ASSUMPTION, THERE IS JUST IS.
KALO SEPATU COCOK, KAKI DILUPAKAN
KALO IKAT PINGGANG COCOK, PINGGANG DILUPAKAN
KALO SEMUA SELARAS, AKU DILUPAKAN (ON THE SAME PAGE)
PERBUATAN SESEORANG MENUNJUKAN APA YANG MAU DITAFSIRKAN OLEH PENGAMATNYA, PEMUKUL DAN YANG DIPUKUL.
MEMUAT DAN DIMUAT, MENERTAWAKAN DAN DITERTAWAKAN, MEMBICARAKAN DAN DIBICARAKAN, MEMINJAM DAN DIPINJAM.
IN DIRECT EXPERIENCE, THERE IS NO DANGER, JUST PERCEPTION AND KNOWLEDGE
NO UNDERSTANDING
THERE IS NO DANGER, NO ASSUMPTION, THERE IS JUST IS.
Saturday, March 3, 2012
3-4-12
PEOPLE WHO HAS NOTHING TO LOSE PLAY LOSE.
LANGUAGE IS THE PROBLEM BECAUSE IT CREATE SUPERFICIAL WORLD, BUT IT ENABLE TO SURVIVE LONGER IN A GROUP.
GPS KNOWS MAP BUT DOESN'T RECOGNIZE, IT DOESN'T GET UPSET OR HAPPY TO GO TO CERTAIN PLACES. IN MOVIE "AI", WHEN HE LEARN TO ATTACH/LOVE, HE EXPERIENCE SADNESS/ANGER/JEALOUSY.
"IT IS BETTER TO HAVE HEN TOMORROW THAN AN EGG TODAY"
"BREAD TODAY IS BETTER THAN A CAKE TOMORROW"
DEJA VU : RECOGNIZE (KINESTATIC) BUT DON'T KNOW
JAMA VU: KNOW BUT DON'T RECOGNIZE
EMOTION IS REFLEXIVE TO SENSORY INPUT. BUT WHEN THERE IS NO SENSORY INPUT, IT IS REFLEXIVE TO SYMBOLS IN MIND OR REFLECTIVE. IT KINESTATICALLY INTERPRET SYMBOLS OR RECOGNIZE OR REFLEXIVELY RESPOND TO SYMBOLS. WHAT DOES AN OBJECT OR EVENT OR PERSON OR PLACE MEANS TO ME?
PUJIAN DAN CELAAN MEMANCING "AKU"
WHEN HAPPY AND SAFE, LOOK FOR TROUBLE, FUTURE TROUBLE, WORRY ABOUT SOMETHING.
WHEN ACTUALLY NOT HAPPY, LOOKING FOR SOMETHING TO MAKE HAPPY, SOOTH SELF.
TIDAK MEMBEBANI BUMI
TAPE KOSONG BAHASA INGGRIS
LANGUAGE IS THE PROBLEM BECAUSE IT CREATE SUPERFICIAL WORLD, BUT IT ENABLE TO SURVIVE LONGER IN A GROUP.
GPS KNOWS MAP BUT DOESN'T RECOGNIZE, IT DOESN'T GET UPSET OR HAPPY TO GO TO CERTAIN PLACES. IN MOVIE "AI", WHEN HE LEARN TO ATTACH/LOVE, HE EXPERIENCE SADNESS/ANGER/JEALOUSY.
"IT IS BETTER TO HAVE HEN TOMORROW THAN AN EGG TODAY"
"BREAD TODAY IS BETTER THAN A CAKE TOMORROW"
DEJA VU : RECOGNIZE (KINESTATIC) BUT DON'T KNOW
JAMA VU: KNOW BUT DON'T RECOGNIZE
EMOTION IS REFLEXIVE TO SENSORY INPUT. BUT WHEN THERE IS NO SENSORY INPUT, IT IS REFLEXIVE TO SYMBOLS IN MIND OR REFLECTIVE. IT KINESTATICALLY INTERPRET SYMBOLS OR RECOGNIZE OR REFLEXIVELY RESPOND TO SYMBOLS. WHAT DOES AN OBJECT OR EVENT OR PERSON OR PLACE MEANS TO ME?
PUJIAN DAN CELAAN MEMANCING "AKU"
WHEN HAPPY AND SAFE, LOOK FOR TROUBLE, FUTURE TROUBLE, WORRY ABOUT SOMETHING.
WHEN ACTUALLY NOT HAPPY, LOOKING FOR SOMETHING TO MAKE HAPPY, SOOTH SELF.
TIDAK MEMBEBANI BUMI
TAPE KOSONG BAHASA INGGRIS
Thursday, March 1, 2012
EMOTION = KINESTATIC MEANING
EMOTION IS OUR KINESTATIC MEANING
HOW WE INTERPRET SYMBOLS OR RECOGNIZE OBJECTS
WHAT IS A TABLE? WHO IS HE? WHO AM I?
THIS IS WHAT IS CALLED IDENTIFICATION
WE LOOK AT OLD PHOTOGRAPH AND CAN RECOGNIZE SELF AND OTHERS
WE SUBJECTIZE OBJECTS AND INTERPRET EVENTS
THE MOST IMPORTANT IS KINESTATIC ME.
COMPUTER DON'T HAVE DINOSAUR. IT MAY KNOW BUT DON'T UNDERSTAND.
EMOTION IS KINESTATIC UNDERSTANDING.
IF EMOTIONS ARE KINESTATIC, LANGUAGE/SYMBOLS ARE KONATIC AND REFERENSIAL.
MIND IS SYMBOL MAKING, EMOTION KINESTATICALLY INTERPRET THE SYMBOLS, LIKE RELIGIONS TRIGGER POSITIVE EMOTION.
EMOTION IS REFLEXIVE AND REFLECTIVE.
EMOTION IS REFLEXIVE RELATING TO SENSORY/SENSATION
EMOTION IS REFLECTIVE RELATING TO PERCEPTION AND MEMORY
HOW WE INTERPRET SYMBOLS OR RECOGNIZE OBJECTS
WHAT IS A TABLE? WHO IS HE? WHO AM I?
THIS IS WHAT IS CALLED IDENTIFICATION
WE LOOK AT OLD PHOTOGRAPH AND CAN RECOGNIZE SELF AND OTHERS
WE SUBJECTIZE OBJECTS AND INTERPRET EVENTS
THE MOST IMPORTANT IS KINESTATIC ME.
COMPUTER DON'T HAVE DINOSAUR. IT MAY KNOW BUT DON'T UNDERSTAND.
EMOTION IS KINESTATIC UNDERSTANDING.
IF EMOTIONS ARE KINESTATIC, LANGUAGE/SYMBOLS ARE KONATIC AND REFERENSIAL.
MIND IS SYMBOL MAKING, EMOTION KINESTATICALLY INTERPRET THE SYMBOLS, LIKE RELIGIONS TRIGGER POSITIVE EMOTION.
EMOTION IS REFLEXIVE AND REFLECTIVE.
EMOTION IS REFLEXIVE RELATING TO SENSORY/SENSATION
EMOTION IS REFLECTIVE RELATING TO PERCEPTION AND MEMORY
sleepless night 3-1-12
They are me and I am my worst nightmare
the narcissistic manipulator procastinator and aggressor, when allowed, they will come out, but we don't tickle ourselves
the rejected self, because it takes one to know one
we see myself in others
Don't avoid dealing with this kept traumatic self for fake peacefulness
to clean house is to remove the dirts
From attachment, we get gratified by met needs and frustrated by unmet needs
we keep the gratification and project the frustration to others
Instead of saying "I am frustrated by unmet needs" I blame others
What I think I am is the opposite of what I am, What I think I do is the opposite of what I do
What I am and I do is frustration that I see in other people in order to maintain what I think about myself
When I blame others, I actually blame myself for those characteristics because those characteristics gave me a bad name or is not acceptable
when I don't accept myself, I also don't accept others who shows those characteristic
A passive person is afraid to aggressiveness, an aggressive person is afraid to passivity
A passive person (personality) is afraid of his own aggressiveness (shadow) and an aggressive person is afraid of his own passiveness
A passive person has aggressiveness addressed to oneself and an aggressive person has passiveness addressed to oneself.
A passive person is looking for aggressive others and aggressive person is looking for passive person
The opposite attracts
A passive person is obsessed with aggressiveness and an aggressive person is obsessed with passiveness
A passive person has aggressiveness addressed to oneself and avoid to be aggressive
An aggressive person has passiveness addressed to oneself and avoid to be passive
So an aggressive person is a passive person's worst nightmare and a passive person is an aggressive person's worst nightmare
A passive person tolerate his own aggressiveness to avoid others' aggressiveness
an aggressive person tolerate his own passiveness to avoid others' passiveness
Because we don't tickle ourselves
A passive person will encourage others to be passive and an aggressive person will encourage others to be aggressive
Like, there can't be two same persons in the same room, it's too many.
An aggressive person can't stand passive persons because he is not comfortable with passiveness, and a passive person can't stand an aggressive person because he is afraid of aggressiveness
SO, We are our own worst enemy.
the narcissistic manipulator procastinator and aggressor, when allowed, they will come out, but we don't tickle ourselves
the rejected self, because it takes one to know one
we see myself in others
Don't avoid dealing with this kept traumatic self for fake peacefulness
to clean house is to remove the dirts
From attachment, we get gratified by met needs and frustrated by unmet needs
we keep the gratification and project the frustration to others
Instead of saying "I am frustrated by unmet needs" I blame others
What I think I am is the opposite of what I am, What I think I do is the opposite of what I do
What I am and I do is frustration that I see in other people in order to maintain what I think about myself
When I blame others, I actually blame myself for those characteristics because those characteristics gave me a bad name or is not acceptable
when I don't accept myself, I also don't accept others who shows those characteristic
A passive person is afraid to aggressiveness, an aggressive person is afraid to passivity
A passive person (personality) is afraid of his own aggressiveness (shadow) and an aggressive person is afraid of his own passiveness
A passive person has aggressiveness addressed to oneself and an aggressive person has passiveness addressed to oneself.
A passive person is looking for aggressive others and aggressive person is looking for passive person
The opposite attracts
A passive person is obsessed with aggressiveness and an aggressive person is obsessed with passiveness
A passive person has aggressiveness addressed to oneself and avoid to be aggressive
An aggressive person has passiveness addressed to oneself and avoid to be passive
So an aggressive person is a passive person's worst nightmare and a passive person is an aggressive person's worst nightmare
A passive person tolerate his own aggressiveness to avoid others' aggressiveness
an aggressive person tolerate his own passiveness to avoid others' passiveness
Because we don't tickle ourselves
A passive person will encourage others to be passive and an aggressive person will encourage others to be aggressive
Like, there can't be two same persons in the same room, it's too many.
An aggressive person can't stand passive persons because he is not comfortable with passiveness, and a passive person can't stand an aggressive person because he is afraid of aggressiveness
SO, We are our own worst enemy.
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