Life

Living is like driving a car
Incompetence regulate others, competence regulates self

Individual self is a product of individuation, it's collection or system of competent navigational skills.
selfothers are self in incompetence stage

Individuation is internalization:
1. Pre-competence:
SELF and OBJECTS are separate

2. Incompetence:
SELF and OBJECTS AND SELF-OBJECTS (incompetence objects)

3. Competence:
The self from SELF-OBJECTS unite with SELF, and the OBJECT from SELF-OBJECT unite with OBJECTS.

EVERYTHING IS INTERNALIZATION OR INDIVIDUATION PROCESS.