EMOTIONAL WAR

HUMAN'S FIGHT IS MOSTLY NON PHYSICAL, BECAUSE PHYSICAL FIGHT IS ILLEGAL
HUMAN'S CONFLICT IS MOSTLY EMOTIONAL AND MENTAL (WORDS)
WE REACT TO OTHERS' EMOTION
EMOTION IS PRE ACTION, PROMISE OF ACTION MORE CONVINCING THAN WORDS' PROMISE
EMOTION CAN PRODUCE STRONGER DESTRUCTIVE ACTION, EMOTIONAL ACTION
MOST ACTION IS EMOTIONAL
A PERSON'S EMOTION IS LIKE EARTHQUAKE BEFORE VOLCANIC ERUPTION
EMOTION IS ACTION, ACTION IS EMOTION
LIKE ANGER
FEAR THE ACTION NOT THE EMOTION
MOST NEGATIVE EMOTIONS ARE NGAMBEK/PITY, ACT IN OUR OUT FRUSTRATION
WE CAN PRETEND TO SMILE, ANGRY OR SAD TO GAIN SYMPATHY
IT'S A BARGAINING TACTIC
BECAUSE RELATIONSHIP IS A NEGOTIATION, TRANSACTION OF SAFETY.
WE ARE MEETING OUR SAFETY, THEN TRUST/INTIMACY NEEDS
WE ARE NEGOTIATING FOR A SAFE PLACE/FRIENDLINESS
BEFORE REACHING THAT PRIVATE SPACE TO OPEN OUR SELF UP

IS OUR EMOTION A REACTION TO OTHERS' EMOTION?
OUR AFFECT RESPOND TO AFFECTIVE CONNOTATION? NOT ONLY IN LANGUAGE BUT ALSO TO ORAL TONES, FACIAL EXPRESSION, BODY LANGUAGE?
WE READ EMOTION/FEELING BEHIND THOSE BODY LANGUAGE AND WE REACT EMOTIONALLY.
SO, WE ARE TWO DINASOURS COMMUNICATING LIKE ANIMALS.
EMOTIONS RESPOND TO PRIMARY NEEDS