INTUITIONAL = VERBAL/IMAGINATIVE
SENSE = VISUAL/PERCEPTIONAL, SENSUAL, PSIKOMOTOR
THINK = INTELLIGENCE
FEELING = INTERNAL SENSE
INTUITION IS VERBAL IQ, THINK IS THE PERFORMANCE IQ, HOW TO USE THE INFORMATION.
SENSE IS VERBAL IQ, FEELING IS THE PERFORMANCE IQ.
I AM AN INTROVERT WITH DOMINANT MAKING DECISION BASED ON BEING HIJACKED BY EMOTION. WHEN NOT HIJACKED MY AUX PERSONALITY EXTRO INTUITION PHILOSOPHIZE ABOUT THE WORLD. UNDERDEVELOPED ARE THE INTERNAL SENSE AND FINALLY THE EXTERNAL THINKING.
THINKING IS LIKE NERD, FEELING IS LIKE TOO SENSITIVE PERSON. THINKER DON'T FEEL AND FEELER DON'T THINK. SENSER IS A PRAGMATIS, INTUITIONER IS A SOCIAL/SPIRITUAL THINKER.
MY LEVEL ARE: INT FEELING, EXT INTUIT, INT SENSE, EXT THINK.
THE OPPOSITE IS EXT THINK, INT SENSE. SUPERVISOR TYPE
INTROVERT WITH EXTROVERT INTUITION AND SENSING USE MIND, ABSTRACT AND CONCRETE, TO DEAL WITH THE WORLD.
INTERNAL THINKING TO FEELING IS LIKE EGO TO REGULATE ID. SENSE AND INTUITION ARE DIFFERENT ABSTRACT LEVEL OF INFORMATION.
EXTERNAL THINKING AVOID PEOPLE, FEELING LOOK FOR PEOPLE. SENSE PRACTICAL AND INTUITION THEORITICAL OPENMINDED.
ONE IS ACTION ONE IS INFORMATION. AVOIDANCE INTERNAL ACTION EXTERNAL INFORMATION. APPROACH INTERNAL INFORMATION EXTERNAL ACTION. AVOIDANCE ONLY GO OUT ONLY WHEN NEEDED. APPROACH GO IN ONLY WHEN NEEDED LOOKING FOR INFORMATION.
FEELING IS LOOKING FROM WITHIN, LOOKING TO OTHERS' FEELING LIKE UNDERSTANDING OTHERS' FEELING BY FEELING THEM. IT'S IRRATIONAL AND ILLOGICAL
THINKING IS THE OPPOSITE, LOOKING FROM A DISTANCE AVOIDING AND DENYING FEELING. IT IS LOGICAL.
THEY BOTH ARE USED TO MAKE DECISIONS TO UNDERSTAND INFORMATION.
INTUITION AND SENSE ARE USED TO CREATE OR COLLECT INFORMATION. INTUITION CONNECTS DOTS TO SEE BIG PICTURE AND ABSTRACT WORLD. SENSE ON THE OTHER HAND HATES AMBIGUITY AND STICK WITH PRACTICAL MATTERS. INTUITION GETS BORED WITH PRACTICAL MATTERS.
EXTROVERT IS ACTION ORIENTED, PHYSICAL ENVIRONMENT ORIENTED, PEOPLE OBJECTS ORIENTED.
INTROVERT IS IDEA ORIENTED, PSYCHOLOGICAL ENVIRONMENT ORIENTED, THOUGHT ORIENTED.
PERCEPTION TYPE SHOWS THE WORLD THEIR PERCEPTION FUNCTION (SENSING OR INTUITION) OR THE INFORMATION WITHOUT THE DECISIONS, CONCRETE OR ABSTRACT WORLD.
JUDGING TYPE SHOWS THE WORLD THEIR JUDGING FUNCTION (THINKING OR FEELING) OR THE DECISIONS WITH LACK OF INFORMATION, LIKE EMOTIONAL EXPRESSION OR LACK OF EMOTIONAL EXPRESSION, LOGICAL THINKING, ACTION, LOGICAL OR EMPATHETIC ACTION.
DOMINANT INTERNAL FEELING TOUCH OTHERS USING HIS FEELING, GOOD OR BAD, NEGATIVE OR POSITIVE. IT RELIES ON FEELING AS THE MAIN SENSES TO NAVIGATE THE WORLD. HE FEELS EVERYTHING. HE USE HIMSELF AS TOOL TO TEST OUT OTHER FEELING.
DOMINANT INTERNAL THINKING STAY AWAY FROM PEOPLE AND FEELING AND ORGANIZE STRUCTURE. THEY ARE BASED ON PRINCIPLES AND RULES AND BOUNDARIES.
DOMINANT INTERNAL INTUITION LIVES IN HIS HEAD CREATING PSYCHOLOGICAL ENVIRONMENT ESPECIALLY THE SELF RELATED, LOOKING FOR LOST SELF, BY LOOKING FOR SYMBOLS, LIKE RELIGIOUS, SUPERNATURAL, ABSTRACT SYMBOLS. ONE THEORY OF UNIVERSE, THEORY OF MIND, AND THEORY OF PEOPLE. THEY AVOID REALITY TO FLY TO DREAM.
DOMINANT INTERNAL SENSES FOCUS ON INFORMATION RELATED TO SELF PRESERVATION AND BASIC NEEDS. THEY FOCUS ON SURVIVAL AND HATE ABSTRACT INFORMATION.
Friday, January 11, 2013
Thursday, January 10, 2013
POWER
WOMEN LIKE BAD GUYS FOR A VERY STRONG REASONS
LOOKING FOR EVOLUTIONARY ADVANTAGE OF THE LEADER OF THE PACK
BAD GUYS ARE NOT RESTRICTED BY SOCIAL BOUNDARIES, HE CAN GO WHERE NO MAN HAS GONE BEFORE, HE CAN FIGHT AND PROTECT. HE IS INDIVIDUALISTS WHO ARE NOT AFRAID TO GO WHEREVER AND WHENEVER ENVIRONMENT AND WHATEVER CREATURES.
MANY MEN TRY TO LOOK FOR THIS POWER AND SOME TRY TO FAKE IT UNTIL MAKE IT.
THEY WEAR SYMBOLS OF "BADNESS" AND OVERDO IT, THEY DESTROY. THE PROBLEM IS THAT THEY DESTROY A GOOD THING.
EVENTUALLY, THEY LEARN THAT HERO DESTROY BAD THINGS AND PROTECT GOOD THINGS.
LOOKING FOR EVOLUTIONARY ADVANTAGE OF THE LEADER OF THE PACK
BAD GUYS ARE NOT RESTRICTED BY SOCIAL BOUNDARIES, HE CAN GO WHERE NO MAN HAS GONE BEFORE, HE CAN FIGHT AND PROTECT. HE IS INDIVIDUALISTS WHO ARE NOT AFRAID TO GO WHEREVER AND WHENEVER ENVIRONMENT AND WHATEVER CREATURES.
MANY MEN TRY TO LOOK FOR THIS POWER AND SOME TRY TO FAKE IT UNTIL MAKE IT.
THEY WEAR SYMBOLS OF "BADNESS" AND OVERDO IT, THEY DESTROY. THE PROBLEM IS THAT THEY DESTROY A GOOD THING.
EVENTUALLY, THEY LEARN THAT HERO DESTROY BAD THINGS AND PROTECT GOOD THINGS.
RELATIONSHIP
COURTING BEHAVIOR GETS ME IN TROUBLE
WAS MY BODY WRONG?
TO LOOK FOR THE PERSON WHO FILLS THE GAPS IN MY LIFE?
I WAS HIJACKED BY THE PASSION ANYWAY, WAS I WRONG?
THIS INFATUATION IS SO SELFLESS BUT AT THE SAME TIME SELFISH. I LOOK LIKE AM WILLING TO SACRIFICE MYSELF TO GET SOMETHING IN RETURN. I LOSE MY SELFLESSNESS AND MY SELFISHNESS SHOW UP WHEN NOT GETTING WHAT I WANT. OUT OF INFATUATION, COMES SATISFACTION OR ANGER AND HATE. IT IS ATTACHMENT BASED. IT IS POSSESSIVE EXAGGERATION. ONLY INFATUATION CAN CREATE JEALOUSY, LONELINESS, AND RAGE.
I CAN'T DO THIS AGAIN. WHY I KEEP FALLING FOR THE SAME TYPE OF PERSON? IS MY BODY WRONG? THE CONFIDENT DOMINANT INDEPENDENT TYPE? NO IT S NOT IF THE PERSON IS THE PERSON SHE CLAIMS TO BE. THE PROBLEM IS THAT SHE MAY FAKE IT. SO, SHE MAY NOT BE WHAT SHE SEEMS TO BE. THE PERSON YOU INFATUATED MAY NOT BE THE SAME PERSON AS SHE IS. THIS IS THE PROBLEM OF COURTING BEHAVIOR, WHERE A PERSON MAKE UP HIMSELF TO BE SOMEBODY HE IS NOT. FIND OUT HER REAL SELF AND ASK YOURSELF AGAIN IF THIS IS WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR AND MARRIAGE IS A BAD TIME TO DO IT.
ONE PERSON'S COURTING BEHAVIOR OR FEELING MAY NOT BE FELT BY THE OTHER PERSON. THIS IS THE DRAMA OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP WHERE TWO PERSONS ARE IN TWO DIFFERENT LEVEL OF RELATIONSHIP. HE MAY LIKE HER MORE THAN SHE LIKE HIM. HE MAY LIKE HER AND SHE DOESN'T LIKE HIM.
WAS MY BODY WRONG?
TO LOOK FOR THE PERSON WHO FILLS THE GAPS IN MY LIFE?
I WAS HIJACKED BY THE PASSION ANYWAY, WAS I WRONG?
THIS INFATUATION IS SO SELFLESS BUT AT THE SAME TIME SELFISH. I LOOK LIKE AM WILLING TO SACRIFICE MYSELF TO GET SOMETHING IN RETURN. I LOSE MY SELFLESSNESS AND MY SELFISHNESS SHOW UP WHEN NOT GETTING WHAT I WANT. OUT OF INFATUATION, COMES SATISFACTION OR ANGER AND HATE. IT IS ATTACHMENT BASED. IT IS POSSESSIVE EXAGGERATION. ONLY INFATUATION CAN CREATE JEALOUSY, LONELINESS, AND RAGE.
I CAN'T DO THIS AGAIN. WHY I KEEP FALLING FOR THE SAME TYPE OF PERSON? IS MY BODY WRONG? THE CONFIDENT DOMINANT INDEPENDENT TYPE? NO IT S NOT IF THE PERSON IS THE PERSON SHE CLAIMS TO BE. THE PROBLEM IS THAT SHE MAY FAKE IT. SO, SHE MAY NOT BE WHAT SHE SEEMS TO BE. THE PERSON YOU INFATUATED MAY NOT BE THE SAME PERSON AS SHE IS. THIS IS THE PROBLEM OF COURTING BEHAVIOR, WHERE A PERSON MAKE UP HIMSELF TO BE SOMEBODY HE IS NOT. FIND OUT HER REAL SELF AND ASK YOURSELF AGAIN IF THIS IS WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR AND MARRIAGE IS A BAD TIME TO DO IT.
ONE PERSON'S COURTING BEHAVIOR OR FEELING MAY NOT BE FELT BY THE OTHER PERSON. THIS IS THE DRAMA OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP WHERE TWO PERSONS ARE IN TWO DIFFERENT LEVEL OF RELATIONSHIP. HE MAY LIKE HER MORE THAN SHE LIKE HIM. HE MAY LIKE HER AND SHE DOESN'T LIKE HIM.
UNRULY PASSION
WAKING UP, I WAS TAKEN OVER BY THE UNRULY PASSION
THE DESIRE, THE WORRY.
AH, THOU ARE THE GREATEST AND YET THE WORSE
BECAUSE YOU ARE ME, THE ONE I AM DENYING
THIS PASSION IS NOT REACTION
IT JUST IS. IT IS THE ACTION
OF BEING ALIVE
IT MAY NOT BE A REACTION TO SOMETHING HE SEE
IT MAY BE A REACTION TO PREVIOUS ACTION WHICH WAS A REACTION TO PREVIOUS PREVIOUS ACTION
ONE REEL OF UNINTERRUPTED MOVEMENT, SO CALLED LIFE.
THE DESIRE, THE WORRY.
AH, THOU ARE THE GREATEST AND YET THE WORSE
BECAUSE YOU ARE ME, THE ONE I AM DENYING
THIS PASSION IS NOT REACTION
IT JUST IS. IT IS THE ACTION
OF BEING ALIVE
IT MAY NOT BE A REACTION TO SOMETHING HE SEE
IT MAY BE A REACTION TO PREVIOUS ACTION WHICH WAS A REACTION TO PREVIOUS PREVIOUS ACTION
ONE REEL OF UNINTERRUPTED MOVEMENT, SO CALLED LIFE.
Tuesday, January 8, 2013
LOVE AND SEX
WOMEN USE SEX TO GET LOVE, MEN USE LOVE TO GET SEX.
INFATUATION IS A COURTING BEHAVIOR WHERE MALE AND FEMALE HAVE DIFFERENT GOALS. FEMALE SELECT THEIR PARTNER CAREFULLY AND HOPEFULLY GET A RELATIONSHIP, LOVE, AND OFFSPRING FROM THE MATING. FOR MALE, THE MATING IS THE GOAL. FEMALE WORK HARD AFTER THE MATING, MALE WORK HARD BEFORE THE MATING.
RELATIONSHIP GOES FROM ACQUAINTANCE, FRIENDS, TO INTIMATE. BUT FOR MATING, IT GOES THE OTHER WAY AROUND. RELATIONSHIP BUILDS COMMUNITY, MATING BUILDS OFFSPRING.
COURTING BEHAVIOR IS ONE OF THE PHYSICAL NATURAL BEHAVIOR. COURTINGG BEHAVIOR IS A PRE RELATIONSHIP BEHAVIOR. A PERSON MAY PROMISE LOVE IN COURTING BEHAVIOR, OVEREXAGERATE ATTRACTIVENESS, COURTING BEHAVIOR IS LIKE BEING DRUNK. GETTING HIJACKED BY NATURAL COURTING IMPULSE. EVEN THOUGH IT IS NATURAL, MANY PEOPLE IT S NOT COMFORTABLE WITH THIS COURTING BEHAVIOR. COURTING BEHAVIOR IS WHAT SCARES POTENTIAL PARTNER.
COURTING - MATING - MAINTAINING
INFATUATION IS A COURTING BEHAVIOR WHERE MALE AND FEMALE HAVE DIFFERENT GOALS. FEMALE SELECT THEIR PARTNER CAREFULLY AND HOPEFULLY GET A RELATIONSHIP, LOVE, AND OFFSPRING FROM THE MATING. FOR MALE, THE MATING IS THE GOAL. FEMALE WORK HARD AFTER THE MATING, MALE WORK HARD BEFORE THE MATING.
RELATIONSHIP GOES FROM ACQUAINTANCE, FRIENDS, TO INTIMATE. BUT FOR MATING, IT GOES THE OTHER WAY AROUND. RELATIONSHIP BUILDS COMMUNITY, MATING BUILDS OFFSPRING.
COURTING BEHAVIOR IS ONE OF THE PHYSICAL NATURAL BEHAVIOR. COURTINGG BEHAVIOR IS A PRE RELATIONSHIP BEHAVIOR. A PERSON MAY PROMISE LOVE IN COURTING BEHAVIOR, OVEREXAGERATE ATTRACTIVENESS, COURTING BEHAVIOR IS LIKE BEING DRUNK. GETTING HIJACKED BY NATURAL COURTING IMPULSE. EVEN THOUGH IT IS NATURAL, MANY PEOPLE IT S NOT COMFORTABLE WITH THIS COURTING BEHAVIOR. COURTING BEHAVIOR IS WHAT SCARES POTENTIAL PARTNER.
COURTING - MATING - MAINTAINING
Monday, January 7, 2013
INTROVERT FEELING EXTROVERT INTUITION
I USE FEELING TO LIVE IN MY ABSTRACT INTROVERT WORLD AND INTUITION TO LIVE IN MY ABSTRACT EXTROVERT WORLD.
FEELING AND INTUITION ARE ABSTRACT, THINKING AND SENSING ARE CONCRETE
INTROVERSION IS OVERDEVELOPED INTERNAL WORLD (SELF RELATED), EXTERNAL WORLD TO COMPLETE INTERNAL WORLD
EXTRAVERSION IS OVERDEVELOPED EXTERNAL WORLD, INTERNAL WORLD ONLY TO COMPLETE EXTERNAL WORLD
FEELING ABSTRACT INTERNAL - SELF EMPATHY
FEELING ABSTRACT EXTERNAL - EMPATHY TO OTHERS
SENSING CONCRETE INTERNAL -PERFORMER (SELF GRATIFICATION)
SENSING CONCRETE EXTERNAL - LOYALIST (OTHERS GRATIFICATION)
INTUITION ABSTRACT INTERNAL - POET (SELF DRAMA)
INTUITION ABSTRACT EXTERNAL - PHILOSOPHER (OTHERS DRAMA)
THINKING CONCRETE INTERNAL -MORALIST (SELF DISCIPLINE)
THINKING CONCRETE EXTERNAL - BOSS (OTHERS' DISCIPLINE)
1. FEELING ABSTRACT INTERNAL - SELF EMPATHY
2. INTUITION ABSTRACT EXTERNAL - PHILOSOPHER
3. SENSING CONCRETE INTERNAL -PERFORMER
4. THINKING CONCRETE EXTERNAL - BOSS
5. FEELING ABSTRACT EXTERNAL - EMPATHY TO OTHERS
6. INTUITION ABSTRACT INTERNAL - POET
7. SENSING CONCRETE EXTERNAL - LOYALIST
8. THINKING CONCRETE INTERNAL -MORALIST
COGNITIVELY, THINKING TO DEAL WITH MORE PRESENT PHYSICAL OBJECTS AND INTUITION LIKE ANTENNAE TO DEAL WITH FURTHER MORE ABSENT OBJECTS.
AFFECTIVELY, SENSING TO DEAL WITH MORE PRESENT PHYSICAL OBJECTS AND FEELING LIKE ANTENNAE TO DEAL WITH FURTHER MORE ABSENT OBJECTS.
ABSTRACT WORLD IS THE PSYCHOLOGICAL WORLD AND CONCRETE WORLD IS THE PHYSICAL WORLD.
THERE ARE ABSTRACT AND CONCRETE INTERNAL WORLD, ALSO ABSTRACT AND CONCRETE EXTERNAL WORLD.
CONCRETE WORLD IS PERCEPTION, ABSTRACT WORLD IS LANGUAGE IMAGE BASED ABSENT OBJECT WORLD DREAMLIKE WORLD. CONCRETE IS CLOSER TO PRESENT OBJECTS AND ABSTRACT IS FURTHER AWAY FROM PRESENT OBJECTS.
WITH THE DOMINANT INTROVERSION, I USE INTUITION TO NAVIGATE EXTERNAL WORLD.
SOURCE OF INFORMATION:
INTUIT ABSTRACT INTERNAL - ARTIST
INTUIT ABS EXTERNAL - PHILOSOPHER
SENSE CONCRETE INTERNAL - PERFORMER SELF GRATIFICATION
SENSE CONCRETE EXTERNAL - LOYALIST OTHERS GRATIFICATION
DECIPHER INFORMATION:
FEELING ABSTRACT INTERNAL - SELF EMPATHY
FEELING ABSTRACT EXTERNAL - OTHERS EMPATHY
THINK CONCRETE INTERNAL - MORALIST
THINK CONCRETE EXTERNAL - BOSS
INFP USE FEELING TO DECIPHER ABSTRACT SELF AND LIVE IN ABSTRACT ENVIRONMENT THAT IS MADE TO FIT THE IDEA OF SELF.
Myers and Briggs held that types with a preference for judging show the world their preferred judging function (thinking or feeling). So TJ types tend to appear to the world as logical, and FJ types as empathetic. According to Myers,[1]:75 judging types like to "have matters settled".
Those types who prefer perception show the world their preferred perceiving function (sensing or intuition). So SP types tend to appear to the world as concrete and NP types as abstract. According to Myers,[1]:75 perceptive types prefer to "keep decisions open".
TO SENSE IS TO RECEIVE, TO INTUIT IS TO SEND
TO FEEL IS TO TOUCH, TO THINK IS TO SEE
INTROVERT WHO SP (CONCRETE)
INTROVERT WHO NP (ABSTRACT)
INTROVERT WHO TJ (LOGICAL)
INTROVERT WHO FJ (EMPATHETIC)
EXTROVERT WHO SP (CONCRETE)
EXTROVERT WHO NP (ABSTRACT)
EXTROVERT WHO TJ (LOGICAL)
EXTROVERT WHO FJ (EMPATHETIC)
MY MBTI PROFILE FROM MOST DOMINANT TO LEAST:
1. Those who prefer feeling tend to come to decisions by associating or empathizing with the situation, looking at it 'from the inside' and weighing the situation to achieve, on balance, the greatest harmony, consensus and fit, considering the needs of the people involved.
2. those who prefer intuition tend to trust information that is more abstract or theoretical, that can be associated with other information (either remembered or discovered by seeking a wider context or pattern). They may be more interested in future possibilities. They tend to trust those flashes of insight that seem to bubble up from the unconscious mind. The meaning is in how the data relates to the pattern or theory.
3. Individuals who prefer sensing are more likely to trust information that is in the present, tangible and concrete: that is, information that can be understood by the five senses. They tend to distrust hunches, which seem to come "out of nowhere".[1]:2 They prefer to look for details and facts. For them, the meaning is in the data.
4. Those who prefer thinking tend to decide things from a more detached standpoint, measuring the decision by what seems reasonable, logical, causal, consistent and matching a given set of rules. Thinkers usually have trouble interacting with people that are inconsistent or illogical, and tend to give very direct feedback to others. They are concerned with the truth and view it as more important than being tactful.
MY OVERDEVELOPED MIND ARE
FEELING-ABSTRACT INTERNAL WORLD
INTUITING - ABSTRACT EXTERNAL WORLD
SENSING - CONCRETE EXTERNAL WORLD
THINKING - CONCRETE INTERNAL WORLD
People who prefer extraversion draw energy from action: they tend to act, then reflect, then act further. If they are inactive, their motivation tends to decline. To rebuild their energy, extraverts need breaks from time spent in reflection. Conversely, those who prefer introversion expend energy through action: they prefer to reflect, then act, then reflect again. To rebuild their energy, introverts need quiet time alone, away from activity.
The extravert's flow is directed outward toward people and objects, and the introvert's is directed inward toward concepts and ideas. Contrasting characteristics between extraverts and introverts include the following:
Myers and Briggs held that types with a preference for judging show the world their preferred judging function (thinking or feeling). So TJ types tend to appear to the world as logical, and FJ types as empathetic. According to Myers,[1]:75 judging types like to "have matters settled".
Those types who prefer perception show the world their preferred perceiving function (sensing or intuition). So SP types tend to appear to the world as concrete and NP types as abstract. According to Myers,[1]:75 perceptive types prefer to "keep decisions open".
For extraverts, the J or P indicates their dominant function; for introverts, the J or P indicates their auxiliary function. Introverts tend to show their dominant function outwardly only in matters "important to their inner worlds".[1]:13
Healers tend to be private individuals who have a strong sense of right and wrong and an idealistic worldview. They are deeply committed to things that are positive or good and may be inspired to make extraordinary sacrifices in attempts to achieve their ideals. They are prone to errors of fact as they follow their feelings more than they follow logical analysis. However, following their feelings also means that Healers seldom make errors of feeling.
Healers are often misunderstood as children.[1] In practical minded families, their devotion to idealism may be frowned upon and may even be punished. Most other role variants can shrug off the parental expectations that don’t fit them, but Healers are greatly affected by it. They want to please their parents and their siblings and, in attempt to do this, they may mask or hide their differences. This can create inner turmoil within the Healer. Healers are often better at detecting this inner turmoil than other role variants. Healers seek unity of mind, body and spirit, perhaps because of the inner turmoil caused during their upbringing.
Healers are adaptable, patient with complicated situations, and welcoming of new ideas and information. They are impatient with routine details. As they are aware of people’s feelings, Healers relate well with others. They are also comfortable working alone given their private nature. Healers have an interest in scholarly activities and often have exceptional language skills.
Occurring in only about one percent of the population, Healers can easily feel isolated. They value harmony and integrity in human relationships, but often find these values to be out of step with the more concrete pursuits of the rest of the world. Feeling "different," they may wonder whether something is wrong with them. But those differences—an ethical nature, a devotion to ideals, a commitment to harmonious interaction—are in fact some of their greatest strengths.
In romantic relationships, Healers generally seek mates who, like themselves, have a highly developed inner life. An ideal mate must be open to the Healers' expressions of unique ideas. Healers may need long periods of privacy, followed by periods of intense intimacy, so they are best suited to a partner who can adapt to these changing needs.[2]
Generally thoughtful and considerate, Healers are good listeners and put people at ease. Although they may be reserved in expressing emotion, they are deeply caring and genuinely interested in understanding people. This sincerity is sensed by others, making Healers valued friends and confidants. They do not like conflict and go to great lengths to avoid it. In conflict situations, they place little importance on who is right and who is wrong. They focus on how the conflict makes people feel, a trait that can make them appear irrational and illogical.[3] In such situations, Healers may benefit from stepping out of the situation temporarily so they can reflect and replenish their reserves.
Healers tend to be flexible, unless one of their values is violated. When their value system is threatened, Healers can become aggressive defenders of their cause, and any project or job that Healers adopt is likely to become one of their causes. Although Healers do not generally focus on specifics, they cover every possible detail with determination and vigor when working on a project that engrosses them.[3]
Healers are often talented writers. Some may be awkward and uncomfortable expressing themselves orally, but demonstrate a wonderful ability to define and express what they're feeling on paper. Healers appear frequently in social service professions, such as counseling or teaching.[3]
I AM PASSIONATE INSIDE BUT NERD OUTSIDE
PASSIONATE WITH SELF BUT THEORIZE ABOUT THE WORLD.
LIVE IN INTERNAL AND EXTERNAL PSYCHOLOGICAL WORLD
INTERNAL WORLD DEAL WITH SELF, EXTERNAL WORLD DEAL WITH OTHERS
FEELING AND INTUITION ARE ABSTRACT, THINKING AND SENSING ARE CONCRETE
INTROVERSION IS OVERDEVELOPED INTERNAL WORLD (SELF RELATED), EXTERNAL WORLD TO COMPLETE INTERNAL WORLD
EXTRAVERSION IS OVERDEVELOPED EXTERNAL WORLD, INTERNAL WORLD ONLY TO COMPLETE EXTERNAL WORLD
FEELING ABSTRACT INTERNAL - SELF EMPATHY
FEELING ABSTRACT EXTERNAL - EMPATHY TO OTHERS
SENSING CONCRETE INTERNAL -PERFORMER (SELF GRATIFICATION)
SENSING CONCRETE EXTERNAL - LOYALIST (OTHERS GRATIFICATION)
INTUITION ABSTRACT INTERNAL - POET (SELF DRAMA)
INTUITION ABSTRACT EXTERNAL - PHILOSOPHER (OTHERS DRAMA)
THINKING CONCRETE INTERNAL -MORALIST (SELF DISCIPLINE)
THINKING CONCRETE EXTERNAL - BOSS (OTHERS' DISCIPLINE)
1. FEELING ABSTRACT INTERNAL - SELF EMPATHY
2. INTUITION ABSTRACT EXTERNAL - PHILOSOPHER
3. SENSING CONCRETE INTERNAL -PERFORMER
4. THINKING CONCRETE EXTERNAL - BOSS
5. FEELING ABSTRACT EXTERNAL - EMPATHY TO OTHERS
6. INTUITION ABSTRACT INTERNAL - POET
7. SENSING CONCRETE EXTERNAL - LOYALIST
8. THINKING CONCRETE INTERNAL -MORALIST
COGNITIVELY, THINKING TO DEAL WITH MORE PRESENT PHYSICAL OBJECTS AND INTUITION LIKE ANTENNAE TO DEAL WITH FURTHER MORE ABSENT OBJECTS.
AFFECTIVELY, SENSING TO DEAL WITH MORE PRESENT PHYSICAL OBJECTS AND FEELING LIKE ANTENNAE TO DEAL WITH FURTHER MORE ABSENT OBJECTS.
ABSTRACT WORLD IS THE PSYCHOLOGICAL WORLD AND CONCRETE WORLD IS THE PHYSICAL WORLD.
THERE ARE ABSTRACT AND CONCRETE INTERNAL WORLD, ALSO ABSTRACT AND CONCRETE EXTERNAL WORLD.
CONCRETE WORLD IS PERCEPTION, ABSTRACT WORLD IS LANGUAGE IMAGE BASED ABSENT OBJECT WORLD DREAMLIKE WORLD. CONCRETE IS CLOSER TO PRESENT OBJECTS AND ABSTRACT IS FURTHER AWAY FROM PRESENT OBJECTS.
WITH THE DOMINANT INTROVERSION, I USE INTUITION TO NAVIGATE EXTERNAL WORLD.
SOURCE OF INFORMATION:
INTUIT ABSTRACT INTERNAL - ARTIST
INTUIT ABS EXTERNAL - PHILOSOPHER
SENSE CONCRETE INTERNAL - PERFORMER SELF GRATIFICATION
SENSE CONCRETE EXTERNAL - LOYALIST OTHERS GRATIFICATION
DECIPHER INFORMATION:
FEELING ABSTRACT INTERNAL - SELF EMPATHY
FEELING ABSTRACT EXTERNAL - OTHERS EMPATHY
THINK CONCRETE INTERNAL - MORALIST
THINK CONCRETE EXTERNAL - BOSS
INFP USE FEELING TO DECIPHER ABSTRACT SELF AND LIVE IN ABSTRACT ENVIRONMENT THAT IS MADE TO FIT THE IDEA OF SELF.
Myers and Briggs held that types with a preference for judging show the world their preferred judging function (thinking or feeling). So TJ types tend to appear to the world as logical, and FJ types as empathetic. According to Myers,[1]:75 judging types like to "have matters settled".
Those types who prefer perception show the world their preferred perceiving function (sensing or intuition). So SP types tend to appear to the world as concrete and NP types as abstract. According to Myers,[1]:75 perceptive types prefer to "keep decisions open".
TO SENSE IS TO RECEIVE, TO INTUIT IS TO SEND
TO FEEL IS TO TOUCH, TO THINK IS TO SEE
INTROVERT WHO SP (CONCRETE)
INTROVERT WHO NP (ABSTRACT)
INTROVERT WHO TJ (LOGICAL)
INTROVERT WHO FJ (EMPATHETIC)
EXTROVERT WHO SP (CONCRETE)
EXTROVERT WHO NP (ABSTRACT)
EXTROVERT WHO TJ (LOGICAL)
EXTROVERT WHO FJ (EMPATHETIC)
MY MBTI PROFILE FROM MOST DOMINANT TO LEAST:
1. Those who prefer feeling tend to come to decisions by associating or empathizing with the situation, looking at it 'from the inside' and weighing the situation to achieve, on balance, the greatest harmony, consensus and fit, considering the needs of the people involved.
2. those who prefer intuition tend to trust information that is more abstract or theoretical, that can be associated with other information (either remembered or discovered by seeking a wider context or pattern). They may be more interested in future possibilities. They tend to trust those flashes of insight that seem to bubble up from the unconscious mind. The meaning is in how the data relates to the pattern or theory.
3. Individuals who prefer sensing are more likely to trust information that is in the present, tangible and concrete: that is, information that can be understood by the five senses. They tend to distrust hunches, which seem to come "out of nowhere".[1]:2 They prefer to look for details and facts. For them, the meaning is in the data.
4. Those who prefer thinking tend to decide things from a more detached standpoint, measuring the decision by what seems reasonable, logical, causal, consistent and matching a given set of rules. Thinkers usually have trouble interacting with people that are inconsistent or illogical, and tend to give very direct feedback to others. They are concerned with the truth and view it as more important than being tactful.
MY OVERDEVELOPED MIND ARE
FEELING-ABSTRACT INTERNAL WORLD
INTUITING - ABSTRACT EXTERNAL WORLD
SENSING - CONCRETE EXTERNAL WORLD
THINKING - CONCRETE INTERNAL WORLD
People who prefer extraversion draw energy from action: they tend to act, then reflect, then act further. If they are inactive, their motivation tends to decline. To rebuild their energy, extraverts need breaks from time spent in reflection. Conversely, those who prefer introversion expend energy through action: they prefer to reflect, then act, then reflect again. To rebuild their energy, introverts need quiet time alone, away from activity.
The extravert's flow is directed outward toward people and objects, and the introvert's is directed inward toward concepts and ideas. Contrasting characteristics between extraverts and introverts include the following:
- Extraverts are action oriented, while introverts are thought oriented.
- Extraverts seek breadth of knowledge and influence, while introverts seek depth of knowledge and influence.
- Extraverts often prefer more frequent interaction, while introverts prefer more substantial interaction.
- Extraverts recharge and get their energy from spending time with people, while introverts recharge and get their energy from spending time alone.[21]
Myers and Briggs held that types with a preference for judging show the world their preferred judging function (thinking or feeling). So TJ types tend to appear to the world as logical, and FJ types as empathetic. According to Myers,[1]:75 judging types like to "have matters settled".
Those types who prefer perception show the world their preferred perceiving function (sensing or intuition). So SP types tend to appear to the world as concrete and NP types as abstract. According to Myers,[1]:75 perceptive types prefer to "keep decisions open".
For extraverts, the J or P indicates their dominant function; for introverts, the J or P indicates their auxiliary function. Introverts tend to show their dominant function outwardly only in matters "important to their inner worlds".[1]:13
Healer (role variant)
INFP HEALERFi 7 – ne 5
Healers are introspective, cooperative, informative, and attentive. Their tranquil and reserved exterior masks a passionate inner life. Healers care deeply about causes that interest them, and they often pursue those causes with selfless devotion. They are highly compassionate and empathetic to the needs of others, seeking to bring peace, health, and integrity to their companions and to society at large. They want to heal the problems that trouble individuals and correct the conflicts that divide social groups.Healers tend to be private individuals who have a strong sense of right and wrong and an idealistic worldview. They are deeply committed to things that are positive or good and may be inspired to make extraordinary sacrifices in attempts to achieve their ideals. They are prone to errors of fact as they follow their feelings more than they follow logical analysis. However, following their feelings also means that Healers seldom make errors of feeling.
Healers are often misunderstood as children.[1] In practical minded families, their devotion to idealism may be frowned upon and may even be punished. Most other role variants can shrug off the parental expectations that don’t fit them, but Healers are greatly affected by it. They want to please their parents and their siblings and, in attempt to do this, they may mask or hide their differences. This can create inner turmoil within the Healer. Healers are often better at detecting this inner turmoil than other role variants. Healers seek unity of mind, body and spirit, perhaps because of the inner turmoil caused during their upbringing.
Healers are adaptable, patient with complicated situations, and welcoming of new ideas and information. They are impatient with routine details. As they are aware of people’s feelings, Healers relate well with others. They are also comfortable working alone given their private nature. Healers have an interest in scholarly activities and often have exceptional language skills.
Occurring in only about one percent of the population, Healers can easily feel isolated. They value harmony and integrity in human relationships, but often find these values to be out of step with the more concrete pursuits of the rest of the world. Feeling "different," they may wonder whether something is wrong with them. But those differences—an ethical nature, a devotion to ideals, a commitment to harmonious interaction—are in fact some of their greatest strengths.
Love and relationships
One of the rarest of the types, Healers can be both extremely romantic and extremely independent. They are likely to want a mate who won't shrink from their expansive imagination. They are often attracted to those whom others have overlooked, given the Healers' rare ability to see the positive qualities that lie beneath the surface.[2]In romantic relationships, Healers generally seek mates who, like themselves, have a highly developed inner life. An ideal mate must be open to the Healers' expressions of unique ideas. Healers may need long periods of privacy, followed by periods of intense intimacy, so they are best suited to a partner who can adapt to these changing needs.[2]
Generally thoughtful and considerate, Healers are good listeners and put people at ease. Although they may be reserved in expressing emotion, they are deeply caring and genuinely interested in understanding people. This sincerity is sensed by others, making Healers valued friends and confidants. They do not like conflict and go to great lengths to avoid it. In conflict situations, they place little importance on who is right and who is wrong. They focus on how the conflict makes people feel, a trait that can make them appear irrational and illogical.[3] In such situations, Healers may benefit from stepping out of the situation temporarily so they can reflect and replenish their reserves.
Work and career
Perfectionists, Healers have very high standards. Consequently, they are usually hard on themselves, and don't give themselves enough credit. They may have problems working on a project in a group, because their standards may be higher than those of other members of the group. This can lead them to become overly controlling. Healers are often well served to balance their high ideals with the requirements of everyday living. [3]Healers tend to be flexible, unless one of their values is violated. When their value system is threatened, Healers can become aggressive defenders of their cause, and any project or job that Healers adopt is likely to become one of their causes. Although Healers do not generally focus on specifics, they cover every possible detail with determination and vigor when working on a project that engrosses them.[3]
Healers are often talented writers. Some may be awkward and uncomfortable expressing themselves orally, but demonstrate a wonderful ability to define and express what they're feeling on paper. Healers appear frequently in social service professions, such as counseling or teaching.[3]
INFP (Idealis)
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Sangat perhatian dan
peka dengan perasaan orang lain.
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Penuh dengan antusiasme
dan kesetiaan, tapi biasanya hanya untuk orang dekat.
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Peduli pada banyak hal.
Cenderung mengambil terlalu banyak dan menyelesaikan sebagian.
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Cenderung idealis dan
perfeksionis.
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Berpikir win-win
solution, mempercayai dan mengoptimalkan orang lain.
Saran
Pengembangan:
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Belajarlah menghadapi
kritik. Jika baik maka kritik itu bisa membangun Anda, namun jika tidak abaikan
saja. Jangan ragu pula untuk bertanya dan minta saran.
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Belajarlah untuk
bersikap tegas. Jangan selalu berperasaan dan menyenangkan orang dengan
tindakan baik. Bertindak baik itu berbeda dengan bertindak benar.
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Jangan terlalu
menyalahkan diri dan bersikap terlalu keras pada diri sendiri. Kegagalan adalah
hal biasa dan semua orang pernah mengalaminya.
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Jangan terlalu baik
pada orang lain tapi melupakan diri sendiri. Anda juga punya tanggungjawab untuk
berbuat baik pada diri sendiri.
Saran Profesi: Penulis, Sastrawan, Konselor, Psikolog, Pengajar, Seniman, Rohaniawan,
Bidang Hospitality
Pasangan/Partner Alami: ENFJ TEACHER atau ESFJ PROVIDERI AM PASSIONATE INSIDE BUT NERD OUTSIDE
PASSIONATE WITH SELF BUT THEORIZE ABOUT THE WORLD.
LIVE IN INTERNAL AND EXTERNAL PSYCHOLOGICAL WORLD
INTERNAL WORLD DEAL WITH SELF, EXTERNAL WORLD DEAL WITH OTHERS
PHYSICAL AND PSYCHOLOGICAL VIEW
PHYSICAL VIEW OF THE WORLD IS BASED ON WHAT WE SENSE, LIKE SEEING, HEARING. PSYCHOLOGICAL VIEW IS MORE LANGUAGE BASED, THE CONTENT OF LANGUAGE, THE MESSAGE.
PHYSICAL VIEW OF THE WORLD IS BEHAVIORAL, ACTION BASED, EVIDENCE BASED. IT IS BASED ON WHAT WE SEE, RESPONSIBLE AND IRRESPONSIBLE BEHAVIORS, EXTENSIONAL MEANING AND ORIENTATION.
PSYCHOLOGICAL VIEW OF THE WORLD IS LANGUAGE BASED, REPORT, INFERENCE, JUDGEMENT, PROMISE (DIRECTIVE LANGUAGE), THE SYMBOL, CONNOTATION AND VERBAL CONTEXT, INTENTIONAL MEANING AND ORIENTATION.
PHYSICAL VIEW OF LOVE IS ALTRUISM. THE FEELING AND ACTION WE DO FOR OTHERS WITHOUT REWARDS. IT IS ACTION BASED AND WITHOUT ATTACHMENT. THIS IS THE SPIRITUAL APPROACH TO LOVE.
THE PSYCHOLOGICAL VIEW OF LOVE IS THE INFATUATION. IT IS REWARD AND ATTACHMENT BASED. THIS IS THE APPEARANCE BASED LOVE.
PHYSICAL VIEW OF THE WORLD IS SPIRITUAL APPROACH OF SEEING HUMANITY AS ONE BIG FAMILY AND SHARING AND COOPERATING WITH EACH OTHER AFTER SEEING THE CONFLICTS AND DESTRUCTION OF THE WORLD CAUSED BY COMPETITION AND GREED.
PHYSICAL VIEW OF THE WORLD IS ALSO SCIENTIFIC BASED ON OBSERVATION AND OBJECTIVITY. THIS IS THE BOND BETWEEN SCIENCE AND RELIGION.
PHYSICAL VIEW OF THE WORLD ALSO SEE RELIGIONS FOR WHAT IT IS, A PLACE TO PRACTICE WAYS TO END SUFFERING AND INCREASE HAPPINESS. PSYCHOLOGICALLY, RELIGIONS CREATE CONFLICT OF BELIEF AND IDEOLOGY.
PHYSICAL VIEW OF THE WORLD ALSO SEE THE ROLES OF CORPORATION OBJECTIVELY. PSYCHOLOGICALLY, CORPORATION IS GREED BASED.
PHYSICAL VIEW OF THE WORLD IS BEHAVIORAL, ACTION BASED, EVIDENCE BASED. IT IS BASED ON WHAT WE SEE, RESPONSIBLE AND IRRESPONSIBLE BEHAVIORS, EXTENSIONAL MEANING AND ORIENTATION.
PSYCHOLOGICAL VIEW OF THE WORLD IS LANGUAGE BASED, REPORT, INFERENCE, JUDGEMENT, PROMISE (DIRECTIVE LANGUAGE), THE SYMBOL, CONNOTATION AND VERBAL CONTEXT, INTENTIONAL MEANING AND ORIENTATION.
PHYSICAL VIEW OF LOVE IS ALTRUISM. THE FEELING AND ACTION WE DO FOR OTHERS WITHOUT REWARDS. IT IS ACTION BASED AND WITHOUT ATTACHMENT. THIS IS THE SPIRITUAL APPROACH TO LOVE.
THE PSYCHOLOGICAL VIEW OF LOVE IS THE INFATUATION. IT IS REWARD AND ATTACHMENT BASED. THIS IS THE APPEARANCE BASED LOVE.
PHYSICAL VIEW OF THE WORLD IS SPIRITUAL APPROACH OF SEEING HUMANITY AS ONE BIG FAMILY AND SHARING AND COOPERATING WITH EACH OTHER AFTER SEEING THE CONFLICTS AND DESTRUCTION OF THE WORLD CAUSED BY COMPETITION AND GREED.
PHYSICAL VIEW OF THE WORLD IS ALSO SCIENTIFIC BASED ON OBSERVATION AND OBJECTIVITY. THIS IS THE BOND BETWEEN SCIENCE AND RELIGION.
PHYSICAL VIEW OF THE WORLD ALSO SEE RELIGIONS FOR WHAT IT IS, A PLACE TO PRACTICE WAYS TO END SUFFERING AND INCREASE HAPPINESS. PSYCHOLOGICALLY, RELIGIONS CREATE CONFLICT OF BELIEF AND IDEOLOGY.
PHYSICAL VIEW OF THE WORLD ALSO SEE THE ROLES OF CORPORATION OBJECTIVELY. PSYCHOLOGICALLY, CORPORATION IS GREED BASED.
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